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writes: I have been in a realtionship for 2 yrs with an man witha GF. He says he loves me and he is leaving her. She hits him, calls him down and abuses him. He says he is scared of her finacilly and what she will do to his posessions. They own a house together but have no kids. They are also 13 yrs apart in age, her being older. Anyway, i told her via email that we were still together, as she knew we were a yr ago. I feel bad, but i couldnt see any other way to end mine and his relation with making him so mad he wont talk to me. But now i feel that i still want him. So far she emailed back and said they have an awsome partnership.... \\do you think he will talk to me again? Reply to this Question
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reader, speedcat  +, writes (1 February 2008):
he doesnt sound worth it! if he was leaving her for you then the fact that you called his girlfriend shouldnt be an issue should it?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 Find someone who will treat you properly and not lie to you. You don't deserve to be stuck in the middle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): You knew what you were getting into when you went with him, but i think you were a bit unfair to get intouch with his gf. He says he was abused by her, is he telling the truth? Some blokes will say anything to get you on their side, even bad mouthing the gf they are with. Sorry, but i think you need to walk away with your head held high and count this as a lucky escape. Put yourself in her shoes, how would you feel? Not good. Dont have him back, just keep walking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, i meet him when he was not living with her. he has left a few times but then she blackmails him. At first i was justa friend and it escalted. im not proud of it at all. i do feel bad for her and him both. Thanks for your answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, i meet him when he was not living with her. he has left a few times but then she blackmails him. At first i was justa friend and it escalted. im not proud of it at all. i do feel bad for her and him both. Thanks for your answer
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (1 February 2008):
If you enter into a relationship with someone who has another partner, you are complicit in an affair, and you have to recognize that you are the interloper, the third party in the triangle. He is responsible for having the affair, it is his problem that he entered into willingly. His relationship with her isn't your business, it's his business. He told you ALL kinds of things about her, they could be true, but one thing is for sure, he told you the worst things that he could say about her at the time in order to get you to sleep with him. If she were as bad as he says she is, he would have left her by now. Have you ever considered that the reason she hits him, yells at him and abuses him is because he has a girlfriend? If you knew she was going to hit him, why would you call her and tell her that you were still going out with him, so that she could hit him again? That's not a very caring act towards the man that you supposedly love, is it? It seems more like a cat fight over a guy who doesn't want to leave his stuff behind, knows where he has it good, and doesn't want to leave. He'll probably talk to you again when he gets horny.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): i dont kno if he'll talk to u again,but he should of gave it some time & looked into everything first very carefully to get away from her if he was that scared.so she wouldnt mess him up financilly...but if he happens to call u just let him kno to everything smart but carefully..good luck to ya.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): Come on wake up. He's been stringing you along with a lot of lies. You emailing her as really set the cat among the pigeons and its all blew up in his face. You're history.
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