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writes:I am 28 years old. I was married (now divorced) and in a relationship for 10 years. I have only been with 3 people sexually in my life. I have been with my boyfriend now for about 4 months. I care about him deeply. When it comes to sex.....it is good. However, when it comes to me getting on top.....I freeze. I have done it a couple of times but only for a minute. I hate being this way. I am scared he will leave me for not being able to do it. Please help me.
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reader, just-ask-xx  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 Ok...leaving you? Over sex? Honey, if the guy's that shallow, maybe you'd be better off without him.
So don't be paranoid, which is ctually easier said than done but I'm positive you can do it.
Good luck hun x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 I'm with Uncle Phil. There is no reason for him to leave you.
Some people have the wonderful skill of turning bad things into good things. I think you can do it here. If you really don't know what to do, why don't you two see it as a chance to discover things that will be new for you? That can be fun.
Don't be afraid. Fear doesn't do you any good. Controlling your fear, taming it, that helps you.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): The way I see it, if you can do it for a minute, you could do it for ten, twenty minutes or whatever.
Why do you hate it? Doesn't make any sense to me at all. I don't see why he would leave you over it, though I must say I enjoy it that way, and every other way, and no doubt your guy does too.
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