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writes:Hi everyone, Im feeling really low right now, i am in love with my ex bf and was hoping we would get back together but i dont know what to do, I feel like nothing is happening in my life although i am busy in college doing a great degree etc., and i should be happy but im not, all i think about is my ex bf, i feel like i need a sign to show me that everything is going to be okay. I dont go out that much not a lot of my friends are around so i cant really meet neone new.im really lonely, miss the intimacy, waking up together etc., i feel like life is passing me by, help me get out of this rut. Ive tried doing things for me and all that but it hasnt worked, alao i always believed that me and my ex bf were meant to be but because i never get a chance to see him, i feel like im missing the opportuinty to get back with him..help..life is passing me by
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi I just read your profile , plenty of similarities to my story, on again off again, talking/not talking hurt feelings etc., I definitely still feel sore about it all and its been a year since we broke up although we have seen each other since and been together but i still feel the same way about him now nothing has changed, i have been with new guys since, hes been with other girls but nothing has felt right. I did feel like we had a great thing and i cant really believe that it is over between us for good,I just think that we need a time and place to talk properly but I havent got the opportunity. Thats what kills me, if we had had a chance to talk, admit things etc., and it still hadnt worked out i think it would be easier to let go.i dont really have the energy to go into it now but i will message you fill you in, thanks!
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (1 February 2008):
 Hmmm. I must admit I have been where you are. In fact, certain things you say in your question are more or less identical to my own situation.
As somebody who has asked this question, I'll tell you the advice people gave me; Just go out and try and enjoy yourself. You will make new friends, meet new guys and you will begin to stop dwelling on what has past with. Although you can assist it by staying active, time is the only healer. And speaking of which, you say that time is passing you by? You're only 18-21! You have many, many years to come yet, so please don't feel like you must hurry to find the right guy now.
As for your ex, it isn't really my place to suggest that you try and contact him. Only you can decide that. But I suggest that you don't, because it may open up your old wounds, and whenever you're healing a broken heart, that can only do more harm than good.
If you feel like it, I would quite like you to message me. I'm intrigued to find out about what happened hear and what you're thinking and feeling. It may do you good to get some off this stuff off your chest to somebody who is willing to listen. In any case it's your decision, I just wish you the very best of luck.
Take care.
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