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Sex is painful, but I want to please my partner. Please help

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Question - (1 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2008)
A female Botswana age 41-50, *ikky writes:

i'm 26 years old and i have a problem.sex is so painful and i have never enjoyed it.i also dont come becoz i concentrate on the pain to much.when i get wet its too much so i cant say i'm not lubricating during sex.i'm now about to get engenged with a man i love so much but we havent slept together coz we wanted to wait,what if i dont satisfiy him when that time come.i dont want to be ding it ti please him and suffer the pain.so can you help me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008):

Losen up, relax and take it easy. Dont be too tense while doing it because that is probably one of the reasons it is causeing you pain. I love to have sex, the first time hurt a bit but then I got used to it now I am having regular sex with my boyfriend. Im sure if you find the right person you will enjoy it more just relax and try to find it pleasurable. Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008):

sex hurts mii 2 but try it and well u losen up and it dont hurt so much trust mii im 18 and i av ad sex bout 20 times (with a condom )and at first it hurt and now it is SO plesurable !!!! I love 2 av sex now IT'S GR8 !!!!!so try it !!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008):

Hi Hunny,

This could be so many different things and I can understand your worrys and concerns, Im sending you a link that may help you, I would book an apointment with your doctor to get a check up hunny...

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/painfulintercourse.htm

I hope this helps a little hunny TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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