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writes:Hi,There is this guy tht has told me he likes me, but hasn't said it to my face just over msn, this was a few months ago but since he hasnt mentioned anything and has carried on like we are friends.However, there is awkwardness between us and recently i have been getting quite upset as he doesnt seem to talk to me properly anymore and he is just avoiding the whole situation.Recently we went out with agroup of friends and he asked my friend to translate a text he received (which i knew was from another girl) anyway the text was about love saying you are my life, you are my love etc.When my friend jokingly asked whos tht from he just said the girls name and said oh shes my sister shes my sister..clearly lying.Why did he do this in front of me?? I'm so confused i dont know what to do. Is he trying to tell me something/make me jealous what??? Please help!!
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reader, scythe  +, writes (2 February 2008):
 That's one of the reasons I hate msn! People tend to be liberal online but clam up in real life. And you can never have a proper conversation!
I think that he does indeed like you, and that the text was to make you jealous. People do stupid things when they are nervous. He might just be scared to make the first move.
Good luck!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 February 2008):
 You are now second best on his list.His feelings for you have waned.
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reader, Chris121  +, writes (2 February 2008):
The fact he lied and said it was his sister probably means he wasn't trying to make you jealous, equally the fact he asked your friend to inadvertently 'read it out' in front of you possibly means he was after some response.
I can say I've done the same (and recently), and I can be fairly shy at times, so I'm gonna say it's this:
He's obviously too shy to say anything personally to you but he wants you to make a move. Therefore, he's put in this possible girl to try and give you a nudge to 'get in there first.' That may sound strange but it's something we tend to do, it's an incentive to ask us out before the 'other girl' does.
Don't get me wrong, he's not being malicious, he's just afraid to ask you out himself. Make the first move, and you'll probably find he'll become far more relaxed. But if you want to stay friends, tell him you like him, but are afraid a relationship would damage a good friendship.
Hope this helped.
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (2 February 2008):
 it sounds like it was probably about you hun, some guys get mega shy and cannot make the first move did you ever tell him how you feel about him? if not why not? and how did you expect him to know how you feel about him guys arent telepathic!id love to meet a person who is. he might not be able to talk to you because perhaps he feels rejected , not much effort has been made on your part you cannot expect a person to go all out to express how they feel , for your feelings to not be expressed and them carry on as if nothing has happend. life does not work like that. if he is trying to make you jealous then he does have some feelings for you definately otherwise he would have no other motive to make you feel jealous. still there seem to be some mixed messages here get it sorted out girl!!
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