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writes:Hi i'm 16 , and i'm a bit lost at the moment. I'm attracted to girls and boys, but i've never really had the chance to experiment with boys. I also like to wear girls clothes. Is this just a passing phase? Will it pass in time? What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 February 2008):
 Could be only a passing fad but time will tell.If you can help it, don't wear them.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (2 February 2008):
 Don't Dream it, Be It.
That is a good question. but, that is a question for yourself, not us.
Do you enjoy doing it daily? once a week? will you POV change late inlife? of course.
Look at Eddie Izard. Action transvestite.
What should you do. rent the movie : Rocky horror picture show. while a fun movie it has alot of under lining values about sexuality.
You are who you are, you're still young and still discovering who you are. and the other is Hedwig and the angry inch.
I know many transvestites and personally see nothing wrong with it. one of them is a damn nice guy, he only does it on weekends or once a month. there is a support group i know of which i will happily put you intouch with if you want to pm me.
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reader, Chris121 +, writes (2 February 2008):
Your friends may not admit it, but chances are a lot of them are going through something very similar. Around your age, your testosterone levels are playing havoc with your feelings and opinions, so what your experiencing is normal. Even I had my doubts at your age.
The best thing to do is to ride it out, once your 17-18+ you'll gain a bit more control, after which if you still like guys then you can safely say your gay or at least bi. I know at your age the idea might be frightening, but there is really absolutely nothing wrong about being either.
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (1 February 2008):
 we are so young honey, and they say that at this age we never know what we want. the thing is with homosexuality or any sexuality it is never definate until you have been out there and tryed all the flavours. my best friend didn't know she was a lesbien until she had a relationship with the same sex for a year. it was at this point she realised her sexuality. and it is hard and a confusing phase to comtemplate that you might not be *normal* but then normal is definable to your own intepretation. personally i feel you should get out there and try many things. i like to wear some of my brothers clothes sometimes but that doesn't mean i am not straight, or i want to become a guy it just means i am curious and a certain amount of curiousity is healthy because remember we are growing our imaginations are expanding becasue we are growing and learning to live in a wider world. iw ould not let this bother you and if it does get to the point where you feel that your curiousity is not jsut a phase , seek the support of your family and friends because from having some friends in your situation they found it harder because they never told their parents and never had that support until they spoke to me. there are people out there some might be prejudice towards homosexual people but the more mature people , the most loyal to you will not care about what your sexuality is. i respect my friends for being able to confide in me about their *worries* and respect them all the more as people. i do not love them any less then i did before i knew. i never will it does not change them as a person or how i feel about them. it is jsut another decision they have made and as long as they are happy so am i. you are not alone many people go through life wondering and feeling the things you are , be honest with yourself and listen because in the end it is only you who really knows what or where you want to be.
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