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writes:Four months since the break up. And I am still hurting! I wish it would stop. All of it. Going to stop all contact starting right now. The thing is I have tried it before but if we don't speak, then 2 days later, like clockwork, my ex boyfriend would call. Insists he cares for me but is so disinterested in everything to do with me. Why does he do this? Why call when he clearly has nothing to say? Am quite fed up. Everytime I start doing alright, he calls. I realize I do not owe him anything after being lied to and cheated on for close to three years, so why do i always end up taking his calls! Plus, will be visiting a friend who shares a flat with him this weekend. Shall hopefully be able to stick ignoring him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): If you want to talk to him, then you do the talking and ask him just what he is playing at. If you dont then dont answer your phone or change your number. You are encourageing him by listening. If you want it to stop then tell him. It is in your hands.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 He cannot read your mind.So he just calls and do nothing more than that.You did not encourage him or showed that you wanted to patch up with him. He is clueless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): communication sometimes means calling a spade a spade. TELL HIM TO STOP CALLING. if he continues just hang up on him.
Good Luck
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reader, quit playing games with my heart  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 It's like he knowwwws when you're starting to feel like you can go on without him, and BAM that's right when he calls, this is currently happening to me, and I believe you, It's tough!! You just have to stay away!!! ignore his calls too... i know thats hard! and you're right you do NOT owe him anything, If he wants you back, i believe in second chances if someone has changed, but tell him he would have to do something REALLY great to get you back at this point in the game, straight up tell him that you do not want anything to do with him so he should stop calling you. FORGET HIS NUMBER! good luck girlie.... stay strong!!!
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