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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my guy on and off for almost a year. He’s ALWAYS been amazing in bed. I am VERY satisfied with what he has to offer. Only problem is I have some issues with myself which really makes sex with difficult. (On my fault) I am very self conscious about my body. I don’t think I have ever had sex with fully unclothed. I have always preferred to keep my shirt on. I feel I shelter myself and hold back from a lot because im scared of what he may think or how I might act. He has always wanted to do oral on me but I have only let him once but made him stop soon after he started. Not because it didn’t feel good, but I just kind of felt embarrassed. Another issue I have is being on top. I feel like I can’t get into the grove of the things and I kind of feel he’s probably not enjoying it. So we pretty much stick to him on top, him from behind or oral for him. He’s made comments that he wants me to try this or that, and even made comments to my friends when we got on the subject of sex that I don’t or wont try this or that. I really don’t know what my issue is. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): I don't know how to help you overcome it, but I just want to let you know that you aren't alone. I suffer from the same problems.
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