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writes:Im in love with a friend, he's not close and he is 2 years older than me. I've told him that i like him but he doesnt feel the same. We are still friends and talk to each other but, it hurts soo much knowing that he likes another girl. Please help me, i feel so pathetic! Reply to this Question
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reader, Michelley-ox +, writes (2 February 2008):
 its not pathetic its understandable. emotions are stupid things i think if you like someone they should like you back it just makes sense unfortunetly thats not how its goes but trust me i've been through a similar situation except he was my best friend and he was always with me so a little bit more dramatic than your situation but you wi get over this if it wasnt meant to be then it isnt goin to happpen between you and him but also maybe its just not meant to happend yet wel how many people do u know that spend their whole lives together from they age of 16 not many! am just saying if you and him are meant to be together you will just maybe not now
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (2 February 2008):
 everyone feels that way with rejection honey it passes , i know it doesnt help but there are many guys out there some will break your heart and some won't thats life it comes and goes. it is something we all have to live with. you won't feel this way forever , move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): Try to hang with other friends. He already told you he isn't interested if you force him he will go out of his way to stay away from you. Realize that you can only be friends and if you can't do that find a new friend to hang with.
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reader, Chris121 +, writes (1 February 2008):
There's nothing pathetic about it at all, we've all been there and we've all felt the same way about it after. To be honest, I'm in a similar situation. I don't know if this applies to you but this is what she said to me: "I wouldn't want to damage a great friendship by bringing in any tension." And she's right. When your young (which I like to think I still am at 19 :s) relationships aren't necessarily going to last forever, and however strongly you felt, there's going to be an awkwardness between you after.
Those girls he's dating will be special to him for a small period of time, but as a friend, you'll be special to him for a lot longer.
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