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writes:About a year ago I was briefly involved with a married man. When I first started dating him I thought he was separated, i ended it when I found out the truth...that he was still with his wife.We have friends in common, he has told people that I chased and stalked him.This is not true, we mutually chased each other.I have not had contact with him for a year but I am upset that he is saying this. Why is he doing this and how do I get it to stop?
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 He's doing this because he is threw with the affair. Find a single man and leave this married man alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): He is trying to paint a different picture of the relationship to make himself look good. I am sure this revised version of history has to do with how he looks to his friends. He may be hoping to create a different story for his wife if she knows or ever finds out. He want to be a victim instead of a creep who cheated on his wife. Don't worry too much, your friends know you. Laugh it off, don't protest too much it doesn't deserve all that, and whatever you do 'DO NOT CONTACT HIM'. This would lend great crediability to his story as in "See what I mean she still calls me"
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): I wouldn't worry to much about this sort of thing as you say you have mutual friends and i'm sure that they know you for the person you are instead of the unstable stalker he is making you out to be. If i was you i would say something like, he had to replace all the kids rabbits after it was found out i was the bunny boiler or something to that effect, make a joke of things he obviously still thinks of you or he would have put this whole situation to bed just as quickly as it started.Please dont get in touch with him as this affair could easily start up again with you looking like what he is portraying you as, keep away and make a few jokes is what i suggest. People will get bored of his drivel and tell him to change the record soon just wait it out good luck
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