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reader, ladybug  +, writes (23 July 2007):
 When respect and trust is gone.
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reader, xxpoisendgurlxx  +, writes (22 July 2007):
 well if your even thinkin this quesion i think its time. im sure youl find someone better
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): i think you've just answered your own question
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reader, bailys  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 You know its over when you no longer enjoy each others company. When the trust has gone, when you no longer feel warm inside when you think about them, when you no longer talk or communicate with each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): You leave a relationship if there is physical violence going on. If you see uncontroallable anger or cheating of ANYKIND then please escapre from that.
Love wanes but it always has the opportunity to grow stronger. It ALWAYS does but not many people want to put the effort in on it.
Also look at if you two are on the same page. Are you two still trying to attain the same goals together? Are you arguing or wanting to spend time with others instead of with the one you love.
There are many factors to which a relationship can split. If you are married then that relationship doesn't end unless the other person refuses to stop being violent, abusive or stable with handling money (to the point where they steal your things to fund their habit or spend on credit cards with no way to pay the money back).
Evaluate your relationship according to these guidelines and see where you stand. If it isn't that deep and you no longer want to be with that person (and you aren't married) then drop the relationship.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 This question is too vague. There are a million reasons that are different for each case. Give some more information.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): When one or both of the people in the relationship have fallen out of love with the other person plus you have had councilling to try to save the relationship but it hasn't worked.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 When both of you are at the end of your tether with each other. When you are just going through the motions and putting no real effort to make it work.
The romantic spark has gone, there is no hugs, kisses, or you have not made love for a couple of months. When you feel like you are passing ships in the night maybe its time to call it a day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): When you start asking questions like that.
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