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My boyfriend hangs out with his ex who still loves him; he says I shouldn't worry but I can't help it

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Question - (21 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Should I worry? My "BF" and his ex spend alot of time together and she is still in love with him. He says i shouldnt worry b/c he loves me and not her but i still do b/c she has tried stuff in the past and that worries me that i will lose him to her but he says i shouldnt what should i do? Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007):

if you trust him then you have nothing to worry about, talk to him about it and how it bothers you. think about this for a second if he felt anything for her he would probably be with her and not you right.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntTell him how you feel. He may see him hanging out with her as being ok, but to you it isn't. Especially if she's tried to split you up before. It's a tough situation as you can't really tell him who he can and can't be mates with, but then again he can't expect you to keep being unhappy either.

I agree with alie that trust is a main key here. If you don't trust your guy your relationship is unlikely to work long term anyway.

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A female reader, alieP91 Australia +, writes (21 July 2007):

alieP91 agony auntwell i have the same problem with my bf and a really good friend of mine and i have the same thing from him, but trust is the main key in a relationship so trust him and talk to ur bf about it, tell him how u feel and i'm sure u'll get him to stop hanging out with her so much.

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