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writes: Does my tutor fancy me?Right now I'm in school, one of my subjects is tech design. I have this male teacher whos like 25 26ish. I spend loads of time in the tech rooms in my free lessons so i spend loads of time with him.A week or two ago was the prom which he was at and I was at. and i asked him to dance because i was abit drunk. n he was like - 'i wanted a drink but i'd prefer to dance with you' so we danced and he was like stairing at me and holding my hands. then he offered me a drink, and we sat talking for ages, then when i was leaving he was saying 'oh no dont go' and stuff, so i had afew pictures with him and hes like really hugging me in them.We were back in school then the week after and he was just talking to me again, and in my lesson he came and sat right by me, but we do have like two teachers at once and only about 5 people in my class, so i guess it wasnt that unusual. Then the wednesday after some of our classes tech work was on display in this place, so some of my class and all the tutors were there, he had his girlfriend with him at the night and as we were arriving, he was too, and he came in the lift with me and my friend while he girlfriend went up the stairs, which i thought was abit wierd,In the lift he was saying stuff like 'wanna go back down? ;)' and was joking that he was gonna get out of the lift looking all red and roughed up, i noticed when he was talking to me aswell he was sort of stairing at me a little bit longer than you normally do, which my friend also noticed. Then when we were leaving he was with his girlfried abit, but then came over to me and my friends from school and asked if we wanted to go and have a drink with the tutors, so we said ok.We didn't end up going in the but we walked around for a bit, and then when we were leaving, i was linking arms with one of the other man tutor,so that he'd make me look older so i wouldnt get checked by the bouncers, and he waved good bye to everyone else and then came over to the teacher i was with and my friends said it loked as if he wanted to come over 2 me.So then on the way home, one of my friends said 'kate u'll have to be careful there!' and i was quite like 'why?' and she said 'its obvious he likes you!', so it wasn't just me who thought it - it was others too..I think him knowing that i'd had a boyfriend who was just a little bit younger than him changed his opinion of me.He's only 8 years older than me, which isn't really that much - as im practically 18, and - we obviously share the exact same interests - as we spend so much time together making things. What do people think does he like me?
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reader, AbbyTomko  +, writes (3 August 2007):
 Do you like him??
it sounds as though he does fancy you
so if you like him too thats great
your old enough for a reationship with him (legally)
but maybe wait till you have left before anything happens x
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reader, daisy99999 +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Hi there, thanks so much for answering my question!
I think your tutor does like you, its obvious by all the little things he's been doing - even so much as looking into your eye for a bit, you can tell... also the fact that he is your teacher (usually he would have to be professional) and he isn't, he must really like you. perhaps he's waiting for you to leave leave before he can do anything but i say go for it if you like him too. the only problem is he has a girlfriend and the worst thing to be is 'the other girl', make sure he ends it with her first.
good luck sweety xxx
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (23 July 2007):
 I would say he does like you, but he does have a girlfriend. You are old enough to have a relationship with him now, and the law can't really touch you, but i would wait until you leave school to be absolutely sure and certain that you can be together without any problems or complications.Hope it works out okay xxx
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reader, candy00s +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Okay...
I think that he does like you - but you have to remember he has a girlfriend so i dont know if he is after anything serious here.
Also he is a tutor and although you are old enough to be in a relationship he is in a position of trust so he shouldnt really be flirting with you.
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