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He as nice to me on the bus, but then sent nasty instant messages on the computer

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Question - (21 July 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *skRosie writes:

This boy who I sort of like is always flirting with me on the bus and on Thursday afternoon on the bus back from school he tried to get one of my best friends to move so that he could sit next to me. He is really nice to me on the bus and he also flirts with me at school but on Thursday evening I said yes to him coz he asked me out like a week before and he left a mean message to me on my bebo and then friday afternoon I was with my best friend on bebo andI sent him a message and he said that he doesn't like me as a gf. A few hours later i messaged him to tell him that it was me hu sent him the message and vwould he like to hook up with me this summer. He sent back u r not my gf. so get lost. I sent back a message telling him what I'd meant by the message before. Does he like me or is he just taking the piss?

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A female reader, AskRosie United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2007):

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AskRosie agony aunt2 weeks ago I went to Morocco, my aunts were taking us to the station to catch the train. But this boy saw me when he was sitting on a bench with his cousin and yelled out Rosie Bish and Put his hand up to me. But for the whole holiday II couldn't stop thinking about him. I really like him.

What does this mean??

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A female reader, so_in_love United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2007):

Guys are complicated to understand, he's probably just being your typical boy and being difficult about the situation.

Asking him to hook up probably isn't the best idea, as it might seem a bit slaggy to him, even if you didn't mean it that way, it's the way it was worded. I'm suggesting you leave him for a while and see how he is with you, if he's still all flirty maybe have another chat with him??

Good luck babe xxxx

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2007):

AuntyEm agony aunt Sounds like he is a little immature. Being nice to you on the bus and then being nasty to you over the internet. I would cut your losses and just put it down to a bad experience. Move on and save yourself for someone nicer.

Aunty Em x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007):

If you are messaging this guy and asking him if he would like to hook up with you this summer, I am guessing you mean you want to fool around with him. If that is the case, this guy probably does not think much of promiscuous girls, and he has lost interest in you and does not want to hook up....I would leave him alone either way, he has told you he does not fancy you in that way....and I hope in the future you stop hooking up with guys at your age it is not very ladylike, and boys really do appreciate young ladies, not too fast, too cool for school girls, except to use them for one thing.

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A male reader, Uncle Trev United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2007):

He isn't worth it. Maybe he was just doing this in front of his friends or as a dare or something. I would have thought the more genuine article would have had this situation of behaviour the other way around.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntI would forget this one girl he sounds like a bit of a messer, move on.

Take care.xx.

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