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writes:I am a guy who met another guy (we are both gay and out) about 6 months ago, by chance have been 'bumping' into him more of late and each time there are butterflies and fireworks between us to a point we can not really speak properly beyond basic small talk.Once we have had eye contact he usually just looks down and thats it, though I usually get his eye full on when he's at a distance. I can understand he is nervous but can do little to help as I am pretty spaced out by him when he's around. I feel like we know each other inside out but of course we do not know each other at all really. (It's wierd, sort of like meeting a work contact for real that you have only ever known via email but obviously more dramatic - you know them but you don't know them).I decided that the best thing to do would be to avoid him for a bit to give us both space to get a grip or realise that I or we are imagining things. My only worry is that he might think that I have gone off him. Am I doing the right thing. I figured that if he does really like me a few weeks of not seeing me should not change things too much. Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl +, writes (22 July 2007):
 I think you are doing the right thing by giving him some space and time, sometimes thats what people need to make them realise that they really like someone and if this does not happen at least you know where you stand and you can move on.
Take care.xx.
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