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writes:Hoping someone can help. I have a set of friends that I had been meeting up with on a regular basis.I know that there was another (nice) girl that they stopped asking to meet up with us, and I think I have now suffered the same fate.They do not ask me anymore, i could approach them and ask them why this happend but I think it makes more sense to say nothing and live with it.I am hurt and confused and do not know what I did or did not do. Should I ask them or just let it go?Why do people do this? Reply to this Question
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reader, opel  +, writes (27 July 2007):
it sounds like you are a very pleasant person to be with .and they ase loseing out bigtime not including you .maybe look around for some better friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): They probably are the kind of people that have low self esteem and it makes them feel better to cut others out of their "clique" You should know however about why they do that, what did they say about the other nice girl after they stopped asking her to hang out? If I were you, I wouldn't ask them. It will probably give them satisfaction and they will laugh behind your back if they're the kind of people I think they are. You should call that other nice girl and ask her to hang out. Maybe you guys could get a new group of nice, decent people together and start hanging out.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 Hunni, it doesn't make any sense for you to just live with this if this has hurt you. I would ask them. Don't be nasty just ask them why they don't want to hang out with you anymore, is it something you have done.
Some people can be very hurtful and go through life determined to hurt other people's feelings. You may find its just one person influencing the others not to hang out with you or something.
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