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I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend.

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Question - (21 July 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so I really like this guy. We definitely had "a thing" . But then I couldn't hang out with him for a long time(during summer), and then when I finally could hang out with him..I come back and he has a girlfriend.

It sucks because I didn't really stop liking him ever, if anything the more I hang out with him, the more I like him.

I think he has feelings for me too i'm not quite sure.

We were gonna cuddle on the couch one night when his gf was out of town, and honestly do NOTHING else, and he said he couldn't because he has a gf which i completely respect and makes me trust him more.

Everyone was telling me how upset he was that he had to tell me that, and that he was saying he wished he didn't have a gf to them..

Do you think he likes me enough to move on..?

(another thing..his gf has never had a bf for very long because she is extremely unfaithful).

Do you thnik he will break up with her for me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007):

Well maybe if you're that interesting enough and from the sounds of it, its seems that you are...so just wait patiently and continue to be his friend and maybe things will work out in your favor!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007):

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O my gosh, no i wasn't planning on trying to break them up at all. I definitely am respecting their space and not trying to do anything sketchy. The whole cuddling thing was a mistake and I apologized for it later.

If he's happy, I'm happy.

honestly

and i don't think i'm just gonna wait on the back burner and jump right in as soon as they break up because I definitely don't want to JUST be a rebound. So after I'll probly wait a bit..

I just don't know if he likes me =

haha

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (22 July 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntI would just wait this one out.

To break them up would be completly selfish and create a name for yourself.

Just be a good friend and stay on the sideline.

If they do break-up you can make your move (let him heal if she did cheat on him) and then you can date.

You don't wanna break them up as it's wrong and really selfish, i know waiting isn't good but it's the right thing to do.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (22 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntWe can't answer that for you babe, he knows you like him though so if you are prepared to wait the relationship is bound to go pear shaped before too long if she is unfaithful to him.

Hang in there.

Take care.xx.

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