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writes:Hi,I'm 16yrs old and am going out with this guy i've liked 4 ages now. The relationship is perfect except one thing:I'm scared to sleep with him.I want to there's no pressure there it's just i'm not sure how to go about doing things and if i get it all wrong i'm scared.On a different matter, i have trouble differentiating between a best mate and a lover so i find it hard to no whether i've made the right choices could you also help me by telling me how to tell the difference?I'd truly appreciate any help and advice on these two problems thank u soooooooo much.Lost and confused.xxxxxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): well, the sex thing is something you got to experience for yourself but only when you feel ready. If your scared then tell your partner about this and maybe he can help you relax somehow. As for the difference between your best friend and you lover well my opinion is that your best friend you can tell everything and know they are a true friend and will help you out, a lover can be the same but are they as easy to trust? thats something you got to figure out for yourself. I hope this has helped you out somehow =]
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reader, blaz£ +, writes (22 July 2007):
 First time is always scary and its pretty hard for anyone to tell you what to do.Just let everything flow and you'll do it more naturally with every time you do it.Telling the diffrence between a best friend and a lover is really hard, i know what your talking about:try to flirt, see if he responds.all the best hun xx
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (22 July 2007):
 A best mate has a key word, "mate". A lover is someone who you have sex with. If you aren't doing this with your "mate" then you aren't lovers.
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