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anonymous
writes:Firstly, I don't want anyone to judge me or give me Christian advice. I would like advice from people who are open minded.I have a good relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for long time. When I first met him he knew I was bi and I struggled a great deal with my sexuality. Before him I had a 2 year relationship with a woman. So he understood my past and emotions. A while ago for the first time we ended up having a relationship with another woman - we were like a three couple and things were great. She even moved in with us-everyone was happy. There was love, care, loyalty etc - everything you have in a good relationship.3 relationship works in the same was as a 2 people one, except it is split 3 ways. But then we found out she had a one night stand at her work party so it ended. It's been a year now and I feel I would like that again. I know this sort of relationship is just so hard to find - and it is not just a sex thing believe me! It's hard to understand unless you are bi but in the middle. Some bi are more into girls or guys - I'm exactly in the middle. Ideally I would love to meet a girl who would see it as a proper serious commited loving relationship. It's not just for fun or sex, I see it as long term. I know there are people out there who live like this and we were all really happy when we had a 3 relationship before. Just wanted advice from open minded people (if you are going to judge, give me abuse or try to critise me please don't bother replying!!!) and maybe from people who had a similar relationship about how I can go about meeting girls for this sort of relationship? Not really into internet sites as I think people there are just looking for sex. So any tips or advice on how can go about meeting a nice girl for this sort of relationship much appreciated. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): im the original poster -thanks for that comment but again i wanted advise from "open minded" advise - not people going to critise me or my beliefs or bisexuality or judge me - thanks. ONLY advise from people with open minds please!!!! many thanks x
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (22 July 2007):
 I think your trying to fool yourselves. It's difficult to be in a committed relationship with one other person. I don't understand how you can expect a 3 way committed relationship. Who's committed to who? Unless no one else would have a person, but why would you want to be in a relationship with someone that no one else would want? Pick yourself up, don't expect a committed relationship, and I'm really sorry, but it is about sexual preference. Maybe not to you, but I think it might be with the other 1/3 of the relationship. I can appreciate your openness, alot of people would hide the truth and sneak around. That's the worst thing to do. Decide what you want, and do it. Get on with life, it's too short.
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