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writes:I am a guy who met another guy(we are both gay and out) about 6 months ago, by chance i have been 'bumping' into him more of late and each time there are butterflies and fireworks between us to a point we can not really speak properly beyond basic small talk.Once we have had eye contact he usually just looks down and thats it, though I usually get his eye full on when he's at a distance. I can understand he is nervous but can do little to help as I am pretty spaced out by him when he's around. I feel like we know each other inside out but of course we do not know each other at all really. (It's wierd sort of like meeting a work contact for real that you have only ever known via email but obviously more dramatic, you know them but you don't know them).Decided that the best thing to do would be to avoid him for a bit to give us both space to get a grip, orrealise that I or we are imagining things. My only worry is that he might think that I have gone off him. Am I doing the right thing?. I figured that if does really like me a few weeks of not seeing me should not change things to much. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the opinion, why are the people you like the most so scarey some times.
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reader, Nevalearn  +, writes (21 July 2007):
I think there are no such things as coincedences! Things happen for a reason and the fact that you keep running into each other must mean something. It sounds like things are going to happen naturally between you two, and you should be enjoying the butterflys. We all know they don't last forever. I don't think keeping your distance will achieve anything, if you are both shy one of you is going to have to bite the bullet. Can you go somewhere as friends, just so you can be sure he has the same feelings? Hope it works out, keep us posted, good luck.
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