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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend's too shy about sex cos he thinks he has a small penis (5 inches) and cums too quickly. I love him a lot but i dont understand why its bothering him so much when i am happy with him. What can i do to make him overcome his shyness?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): believe it or not he may have a fantasy about you teasing him. tell him you think it's cute the next time you touch it in a flirtatious way! If he gets excited then that's what he's been trying to get you to do.
I think you both know 5 inches is just fine, but he has other fantasies he's worried you won't understand.
I had a BF with 6 inches who loved me calling him small and cute.
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male
reader, tonecapone +, writes (16 December 2007):
i guarentee u he was a virgin when he met u if he denies it hes a liar if he aint lying then he never gave a girl an orgasam before so have one make him feel like a porno star give him head for a weak str8 if u have 2 tell um you love it watch how fast he gets over it
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male
reader, Slasher +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Men often use the size of penis to gauge "manliness". Try doing activities together to boost his confidence such as working out to build muscle or playing sports.
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male
reader, Samutsen  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Penis Size Around The World
Country
Flaccid Length
(inches)
3.4
Erect Length
(inches)
United States
5.0
Germany
-
5.6
Spain
-
5.3
France
4.7
6.2
Japan
3.1
5.1
Brazil
-
4.8
Italy
3.9
5.9
Venezuela
3.7
5.0
Mexico
-
5.9
Greece
-
4.8
India
-
4.0
Saudi Arabia
-
4.9
Chile
-
5.5
Colombia
3.5
5.4
Korea (1)
2.7
3.7
Korea (2*)
-
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female
reader, starfairy  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 It's funny because it seems no matter what shape or size a man's penis is, they always seem to have an issue with it. One boyfriend I had, had a very large penis. And he was so self conscious with it! He hated it because it was very difficult for him, having sex. Another was worried about a birthmark on his penis. Another about the slight bend...
Unfortunately there's probably not alot you can do to reassure him, obviously you can tell him what he needs to hear but if the insecurity runs very deep, he will only believe what he wants to. Just make sure during and after sex he can clearly see/hear how satisfied you are ;o)
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male
reader, Samutsen +, writes (16 December 2007):
What can safely be said is that concern about penis size is almost always misguided. Great sex is much more than the sum (or length) of its parts. Hopefully learning more about what researchers and regular folks have to say about penis size may help more men understand that.
* There is much greater variation in size of flaccid (non-erect) penises than of penises when they are erect. A soft penis that looks large may be roughly the same size when erect as a soft penis that looks smaller.
* Because most men see other penises when they are not erect it can appear as if there is a big difference, and men may be likely to assume their erect penis is much smaller when compared to others.
* Male porn stars are often chosen specifically because they have larger than average penises. Also, there are a variety of techniques used to make penises look bigger on camera. Lighting, camera angle, and even shaving of pubic hair can all make things look bigger on camera.
The results from three studies of penis size where the measurements were taken in a laboratory setting give the following ranges:
* Average penis length (flaccid/not erect): from 3.4 inches to 3.7 inches (8.6 cm to 9.3 cm)
* Average penis length (erect): from 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches (12.9 cm to 14.5 cm)
* Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm)
HE SHOULD BE CONCERNED MORE ABOUT COMING TOO QUICKLY, THAT YOU CAN SOLVE TOGETHER
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