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writes:I recently posted a question regarding my ex-girlfriend who decided she wanted me back. Our relationship was awsome until we hit the rocks when she got snowed under with work and college work. We had a "break" which lasted a month before we called it a day. i knew during the break she was texting a guy friend. They both grew 2 fancy each other. The guy went out with another woman (he has 4 on the go) and my ex was upset. She said all along she didnt want a relationship and her and this guy decided 2 be friends.The next day she decided she wanted me back and she said that stuff with this guy, along with all her work, clouded her judgement on what she really wantedShe claims it was Love vs. Lusti had tried 2 move on and met a girl id had my eye on, i still love my ex and feel so comfortable with her. I dont want to feel that i am 2nd best to this guy she fancied... If this guy hadnt gone off with another girl would she still want me back? she says she doesnt deserve me after all she's put me through
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reader, Confusedinthecity84  +, writes (15 December 2007):
 It sounds as if this girl is using you as an emotional crutch. She's comfortable with you and you're comfortable with her, so that's why it's tempting to get back together each time a new relationship doesn't work out on one side or the other. But familiarity isn't the best glue to keep the two of you together.Ask yourself these questions before you do anything: By getting back together with her, will you be able to trust her and yourself? What is the likelihood that she will stay with you just until the next interesting guy comes along? Is she just addicted to having male attention/a relationship? Will you get hurt?If you seriously think about the things that worry you, maybe the best answer to whether or not you should get back together will become clear. Best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): The road to love is never as smooth as everyone in love tells you it was....if you love her and want to try again with her, then no one should talk you out of it....you have to listen to your gut here and what it tells you....mine never fails me.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): Leave it as done and over. You can't trust her, you've met someone new, and for all you know, that guy could show up again at any time and your ex will leave you for him. There was a reason she left you in the first place, (some issue with her), and I doubt it's changed...Move on.
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