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female
age
30-35,
*onfussed?????
writes: This is a question for the men on the site. I like someones who's doing work on my house at the moment.Do men like it when woman make the first move...or ask for your number?He's back on tuesday and i want to do something about it then. Any advice would be great! thankyou xx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Sweet111 +, writes (16 December 2007):
Yes! Yes! Yes!
Obviously thats a personal opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): I don't see any problem with flirting. If you don't show interest you may lose a chance because he probably dosn't want to hit on an employer. I recommend you ask interested and show a little concern. That is how it works.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (16 December 2007):
I guess every person is different, but generally, if someone fancies you, you want to know!
Offer to take him out for a drink as a thank you, see how it progresses.
My boyfriend has a job where he has to go to people's houses and quite often he's had girls offer their numbers. He always says no because of me, but it's a nice confidence boost!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): I would be very flattered, but I've got all the woman I can handle (and afford!) at home!
However, if he's young free and single I'd say go for it. Maybe even if he's not so young, like me!
Phil
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reader, Samutsen +, writes (15 December 2007):
i would have no problem with that. in fact it would flatter me.
but of course if i liked her.
so make sure he has liking towards you at the least.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): All the men I've asked this question of say, 'yes.'
I know I'm not a man, but I'd like to suggest that you try to approach him when he's off work or on break...Otherwise, it may be a bit awkward or pressuring for him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): Yes men like it. At least all the men I know.
From what you describe of the situation he may be reluctant to make the first move so go ahead and take the initiative.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (15 December 2007):
I can only speak for myself:
YES.
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