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writes:Hoping the agony aunts can help me here. Same old story. I met a guy and he wanted to go to bed right away. I wanted the time to get to know him. He did not want to wait so that did not go anywhere. Problem was that I was really interested and a little let down that he did not seem to have interest in getting to know me first...but it is what it is and he continues to flirt and go after other girls. He had a friend..a quieter and maybe 'nicer' guy who I often have noticed quietly and discreetly looking my way when I have been talking to this other guy. I wondered if it was that he knew what this guy was all about and what could be coming down the tubes for me or if he himself was interested. At a meeting last week the guy who rejected me may a rather unkind remark in front of others. I was hurt but kept it together and may have shown my discomfort a bit and I caught the 'friend' staring at me...again not sure if it was empathy or attraction. He gave me the same look as he was leaving. This is a hard question to put to people who do not know the players in this situation but any ideas or feedback appreciated.By the way Merry Christmas and a Happy New year to you all!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): It is really impossible to tell if his friend is interested in you from what you describe, he may just be looking at you because guys talk to their guy friends about women they want to bed or to date, and he may just be looking at you because he knows something about you....I would just move on from both of them....you can do better.....and good for you not giving in to a guy who was pressuring you for sex, he is not interested in having a real relationship with you, any quality guy would just be happy spending time with you and getting to know you.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (15 December 2007):
 If you genuinely like his friend, then yes make a move.
If you only are interested because he seems to be interested, and I'm sure you are still smarting from his friends rejection, I would just leave it alone.
I would steer clear of this first guy, he sounds like a serial womaniser, the type of guy who knocks a girls confidence and makes her doubt her self worth.
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