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writes: So guys, here's the thing: I know this girl, the most beautiful one I've ever seen by the way, and I got a crush on her. We've played volley together at the club and talked by MSN like 4 times. I was wondering about asking her out, maybe go to the movies, but she's always surrounded by friends. I don't think doin' it by MSN is a good idea. Also, there'll be a graduation party which we both are goin' like a week. Should I want until there? It is possible that other guys try to get her at this party though. What should I do?I really aprecciate your help.
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reader, doafreak +, writes (16 December 2007):
Ask her at the party. the worst thing that can hppen is she says no. It will be hard, but trust me you can push through the fear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): If you're extremely worried about rejection, asking her via MSN is your best bet. It's casual, straight-forward, not as stressful, and it will be asked during a time when she's most likely to be alone.
Then again, if she's a somewhat-compassionate/mature young woman, she'll know that approaching her is difficult and think more of you if you do. I'd say take a chance and ask her at the party...If she says no, she says no.
Never know till you try, good luck! :)
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