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writes: I've been with my boyfriend nearly a year. We live together and have been friends for 10 years.He works away for a few weeks at a time. While I do miss him (sometimes very much, sometimes not bery much, depending on how busy I am etc) sometimes I feel like when he's gone, I could live without him.Then he comes home and I'm overwhelmed with the love and strong feelings I have for him.Why do I feel the way I do when he's away? Is it normal? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Samutsen +, writes (15 December 2007):
I don't see anything wrong with your relationship. It looks great.
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reader, Oblivia +, writes (15 December 2007):
It could be that you just feel so good and stable about both yourself and him so that you don't feel any worries when he is gone. After all you know all the time that he will be back and that when he is, you will have strong feelings for him. I would say that is very much to be in a loving and stable relationship. And absolutely normal.
Best wishes!
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (15 December 2007):
hiya!
im 13 and ive been going out with my bf for about 3/4 months. if hes away for maybe 1 or 2 days then i feel a bit sad but i just get on with it. when he comes back then i feel like you said love and strong feelings. i suppose it is quite normal, becasue in a way you forget when theyre gone how much they mean to you and the 'presence' they have when they're near you.
anyway you probably think i dont know what love is because im too young, but i think i do :)
hope this helps.
please feel free to mail me about anything else you want to talk about.
lol
ellie
xxx
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