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writes: My ex boyfriend and i broke up because he was seeing another chick.She had alot of baggage.She had 3 children and he has 1.Do you really think this relationship is serious? She hasn't had her children to his house and they been together 6 months.Doesn't make sense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): It depends on several factors here. How long were you together? what were the flaws in your reltaionship? You need to focus on a lot of things here. It is easy for people to tell you to move on and to not focus on your ex. BUT, you shared time with this person and built an attachment with him. Of course you will need answers. He betrayed you and yes you may not ever fully understand why he did what he did. He hurt you badly and is still with the women that he cheated on you with. You need to ASK him! it doesnt mean that you want him back but you need to try and understand. It is better figuring things out sooner than later cos if two years down the line you still havent figured things out and ak him then it just makes things more complicated and people will only say why did you leave it that long. For the record though. I think that it possibly may be a rebound as it developed too soon after (or while) you had a relationship with him and right now he may think he is inlove. Some men try to supress their negative emotions by moving on to the next thing. She may be filling a whole but maybe not. It really does depend on the severity of your relationship with him. 'Seek and you were find' but you cannot move on unless you gain some understanding and can learn from past mistakes. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): Perhaps you should focus instead on meeting someone else. It may not make sense to you, (may not make sense to anyone aside from him), but you've broken up with him...It's over. Time to move on, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): Just move on. It isn't worth it.
In some cases, he may just be looking for a babysitter thinking it's a relationship.
Just move on.
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