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Does having anal sex mean you are not a virgin?

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Question - (15 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *exyhunnibbe001 writes:

this may sound stupid but if you have bum sex with your partner or anyone for that matter of fact does that mean you have lost your virginity or not?

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A male reader, loverman86 United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2007):

loverman86 agony auntthe only way to lose your virginity is to have regular sexual intecourse. if the guy hasnt had regular intercourse he is still a virgin and because his penis didnt go in ur vagina ur still a virgin

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007):

Being a virgin means that you haven't had any kind of sex with another person. Bum SEX or oral SEX are in fact sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007):

Why on earth at your young age would you be thinking of having bum sex with a guy especially before you had regular intercourse? Please tell me that you are smarter than this. Losing your virginity means that you have had sex of any kind, you are no longer untouched and pure as the driven snow kind of thing.....if you are concerned about having this kind of sex because you don't want to lose your virginity, then you need to not have sex period...wait until you are with a guy who will value you and love you and not use you for a sperm repository....OK?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007):

Conceptually, yes you've lost it. FACTUALLY, no. Because your hymen is intact.

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