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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:me and my lover are agemates both 25yrs been together for 5yrs. why do i feel insecure? how can i get his attention?why is he not calling me often even to tell me if he got my letter?what should i do to make him call me? tho i recently met his mum for the first time is it that he just wants time alone so i give him space?am worried.
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 If he's not telling you one thing and doing another, respect that he's not ready to settle down with one woman, and he knows it. What can you do. Make yourself unavailable to him when he wants to see you. Tell him you're busy with friends or your family and go be busy. Do it for about six weeks, every other time he wants to see you. Who knows, maybe you will meet another man you want to be with too. Have fun, enjoy life, be happy and let NO ONE control you.
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reader, Butterflyfly  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 why not ask him these questions. he could either put your anxieties at bay and reassure you, or he woun't have straight answers for you. Then you can decide how can you move on and in what direction. but dont torment yourself, take it out of your system and ask him!
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