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writes:HiI've been in a great relationship for 10 months now. At first the sex was great and very frequent, we have since moved in together and it has dropped to once or twice a month. For me it isn't really a problem because we have a strong loving relationship, it just seems to work well like this. Everyone I talk to says it is a problem though and if it isn't sorted out now the relationship will fail. Am I the only one that thinks there isn't problem?
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reader, so sick  +, writes (18 August 2007):
let me tell you...even if its fine with you...and I understand that (i really do)...it isint with him. So...to keep him happy and in that loving relationship you have to give it up more than that hun! Look at it like this...men need and would probably do it every day twice a day...once or twice a month isint going to cut it! And...why not its fun...sometimes a hassle..but fun still! You only live once...have all the damn sex you can! I know...because someday you might not be able to have sex with that person anymore! ENJOY! Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): What about the other person in the relationship? It might be good for you but your partner might prefer things to be different. It isn't just your feelings on the matter that are important - there are two of you! Talk to your partner and if he/she feels exactly the same way then maybe it is fine, but if not then there is already a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): If it works for you and your boyfriend then it isn't a problem. When I started going out with my boyfriend we would have upto 6 times a day. But now we've been together 2 years and we only have sex 4-5 times a week. But it's still good and both of us are fine with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): Hunny,
You do mention talking to people about this so that tells me you maybe a little concerned, the best person to talk with is your partner hun, If everything is ok with you two as a couple then who cares what others say. TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, broken baby +, writes (16 August 2007):
thats not a problem at all does there seem to be a problem? i think its great to have a true relationship where its not physical but another thing is whether he likes this or not ask him or does he seem to enjoy it ALOT those few times you do it? by the way it seems though it sounds like your both happy
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