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writes:Ok i am 13 and i recently went out with someone in the same yr as me but i dumped him after 2 days. after i kissed him i knew we were'nt right, but now he won't leave me alone. he rings me and says who are you talking to? He even got jealous when i said i have a new bf who is 2 yrs older than me. we luv each other. he says he gets jealous when i talk to him but at school he acts totally inocent. none of my friends thinks he would do that. he even asked me what a period felt like! He is scaring me in my own home. i have blocked him on MSN but he rings my home fone and mobile saying you have blocked me! He tries to hug me all the time. i said to him fu** off but he said no! Help me i am soo scared of him.
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reader, x...L...x +, writes (15 August 2007):
 I had this problem when i was 14.. this lad wouldnt leave me alone either.. i had to change my mobile number and everything.. you can also get his number blocked from ringing your house fone and report him to the police my friend has done this before as she told me to do it... he shouldnt be able to scare you like this but at the age of 13 i wouldnt worry too much as he wouldnt be able to do anything that bad but in if you ever have the feeling he would then stay wel clear make sure your nto alone at night etc keep safe he wil soon back away when he finds someone new ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): hay hunnii had the same prob but i said to him leve me alown or u have a big prob and he said no do i punched him in the face stoll his phone deleted my number off it and chucked it and brock it then he left me alown but for u i think u sould just tell ur mum or someone and let them sort it ok. anyway hope it works out. plz rate me.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 You need to stop answering your phone when he calls. Stop having conversations with him at school and try to avoid him at all costs. By all means, don't let yourself be in a situation that you are alone with him to "talk" about anything. If you feel he could become violent or do something crazy, like kidnap you, then please speak with someone at your school, or perhaps notify the police.
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 Oh heck no. Go to school and speak to a counselor. You are being harassed and you DO NOT have to take that. He doesnt want to realize that there is no relationship. I think he is trying to scare you into liking him again. You talk to your parents and teachers and say that this boy is stalking you at home and/or at school and you give them proof that he has. Keep a diary or any notes he has sent you to show as proof that this is going on. If he calls your home and you answer the phone, immediately hand the phone to your mother or father and have them tell him off. He has no right to treat you like this. If his behavior is like this just over a two day relationship then you could be in danger if this continues on. Dont worry about what other people will think or what will happen. You get adults on your side to straighten that young man out. You dont need any of that drama at your age. Guys like this young man go to jail or have restraining orders against them. He has no rights to you, your time or to even question who you are with and so on. Tell someone NOW!!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 This has gotten out of control and you need to talk with adults now. You are not ratting him out or being a tattle-tale or any other name that you want to use. You need to tell your parents and tell your teachers today. They are the ones who will talk to this boy and his parents. His parents need to know about what he has been doing to you.
This is entirely out of your hands and the grown-ups need to handle it now. You should never be this scared. No one has the right to put thier hands on your body without your permission. He has to understand that this behaviour will not be tolerated. I hope the grown-ups understand how important this is, people who exhibit this behaviour at such a young age, without regard for how they are affecting others, need help. The fact that he does this AFTER you have said NO and Fu** off points to the fact that he has no intention of stopping without adults intervening here. Talk to everyone today. Stay far away from this boy, don't put yourself in situations where you could be alone with him and travel with friends and in groups. Show your Mom this column and what you have written. Take care. I'm sure things will get better once you get them to sort it all out.
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reader, kace025 +, writes (15 August 2007):
 You need to call the police or tell your parents. Also do you want to go out with me?
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