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writes:My boyfriend always wants me to give him head. Is that a bad trait in a man? Reply to this Question
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (16 August 2007):
 well i think that maybe he just is being a guy and well guys tend to use there head more than there brain and well that thing can be kinda selfish but if your okay with it and getting pleased to than i dont see a problem but if your not than maybe you need to show hea head down there
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Oral sex is a submissive act for either sex. You are giving yourself. If he likes it and you like being there for him then there's no problem. If you don't like pleasing him, then there is a problem. HE seems to know what he likes. Determine why you don't you like giving head, and either compromise or don't. If you're not there for him, then he will find someone who can be. I would say the same to him it fit were you. Decide what you want and do it.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Most men love this. Is he reciprocating? Are you having as many orgasms as he is? I think you have to decide this between yourselves. I think 50% regular sex and 50% oral isn't an unreasonable conclusion to sexual episodes, but you should be able to compromise if one of you really has a desire for a particular thing, and you should both be having an orgasm when you have sex. If what you were asking is "He wants me to give him head and I get absolutely nothing in return!" then Yes, that is a bad trait. That is only something that he should expect with any kind of certainty on his birthday, and even then he should be greatful if you comply. It is kind of fun to be the one giving pleasure and surprising him for absolutely no reason, a power thing, but he certainly shouldn't be demanding a one-way sexual episode all the time (if this is the case). If that is what you were asking - Does he surprise you with oral sex and not expect himself to have an orgasm afterward? (I'm guessing that the answer would be NO). If that was your question, then - NO - he should not expect unconditional, unreciprocated blow-jobs because you are his girlfriend. And - If this IS the case - you are the one in control here! Alex Baldwin said it best - "The girl has to have her cookies too".
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reader, TaylorChu +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Are you getting a wedding ring for giving him all this sexual attention? That's the only time a man should be serviced like that. What are you getting in return? Just an I love you and a peck on the cheek?? Is he taking care of your needs? Tell him to take care of himself, you arent doing something for nothing. If he wants head so bad all the time tell him to let a dog do it. You are better than this to give a man something for nothing. Put all your drive in life into making yourself into somebody instead of "the gf that gives him head".
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reader, J_Cooper82 +, writes (16 August 2007):
It isnt necesarilly a bad trait in him. It more of something he enjoys that you perform well. Otherwise he wouldn't ask it from you. The question you should ask yourself is it something you enjoy doing frequently.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 If you don't want to give him head every time, this is a hell of a bad trait. You should not be doing what you don't like to do.
If you are truly happy to please him, then it't not a bad trait. He likes it very much.
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