A relationship break???

A male age 51-59, *onfusedandSad writes:

A relationship break??? I have been dating this wonderful woman for 9 months now. We hit it off perfect and everything was going great. I can remember about 3 months into the relationship she could not wait for us to move in together, have kids and get married. We were truly in love. I wanted to make sure I was ok financially and wanted to make sure she was the one and that her daughter and I got along. So I proposed 3 weeks ago......she said YES! Then a week ago she says she wants to take a break from us. She has been stressing over us, her 4yr old daughter, her job and her friends. She wants a little "me" time. She just wants some time to sort things out and get everything back in order. Since our break she will call at least once a day or text just to chat, she says she loves me and misses me. The past 2 days no contact...........should I be worried about this break? I love her dearly and she knows that. What should I do during this break? How should I act? Should I try to contact her or give her space and wait? We have had our share of disagreement during the relationship but nothing major and we always made up and laughed about it later, I just don't get why she is doing this is all.......

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