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anonymous
writes:I asked my boyfriend indirectly of course when we had been dating for three months where our relationship was going, he replied that he liked me, but was not sure if he wanted anything serious because he didnt know what he was going to do with his life or where he would be in the future (he is not from the uk) when he said that something inside me changed and I acted differently he noticed it and asked me why i had change i just said i am ok, Which i was, things were just clearer and i knew where i stood. But since that day almost a month and half later things have change, he has been more attentive, and acting like a 'serious' boyfriend, his friends both male and female and even his boss and work colleagues love me! Basically i am confused, has his feeling changed towards me? oh i must mention we havent had sex yet, something tells me he knows i dont want a fling because i basically said that to him when we first met, and so he doesnt want to have sex with me until he can fully commit,anyhow i know it has not been long but for the first time i have found a guy i like and not embarassed to show my friends and family,so should i stick around? can someone please help me to understand what is happening here. I dont want something serious right now but i dont like the thought of it never becoming serious, thats just wasting my time Reply to this Question
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Hello
I dont think your bf has any problems you should worry about in this situation i think you are the one who needs to sort herself out before you commit. you told your boyfriend exactly what you want and he reciprocated thats what you wanted isnt it? if u think u need time i think u must communicate with him so that he doesnt feel like u lead him on just to drop him. this guy seem real this days its not easy to find an understanding guy so hang-on and play your cards right, maybe the uneasiness on your side is being caused by the fact that u met someone you really wanted and there he is and u are scared. so dont do anything irational you might regret it later. go with the flow and i hope everything will work out.
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