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writes:Should I give my boyfriend oral and if I do, what are the health risks?The other week my boyfriend gave me oral and I think that it's only fair that I give him oral back but I don't know how to get into the mood and I want to know if there are any health risks. Thanks xx Reply to this Question
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Don't do it. If there is already health concerns running through your mind then dont do it. Problem solved. If he wants oral let the other girls lined up give it to him. Don't put yourself in a position to get sick/diseased because you think its fair that he get oral too. You dont have to do ANYTHING that you dont want to or are not comfortable with. You have no marriage license nor does he have any rights over your body and vice versa.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 As to whether you should give your boyfriend oral, my answer would be, "if you feel like it, yes".
I think, however, that you should never give him oral just because he gave it to you. If he did that for you, that's his pleasure and yours; he should not "naturally" expect a retribution. The same for you: if you give him oral, do it because you want to, and don't expect him to give any "retribution".
As to the health risks, I understand you can catch AIDS, herpes, gonorrhea and bacterial diseases. If you want to give him oral, you should use a condom. You should not let his pre-ejaculation get into your mouth. And maybe he can bath before the occasion.
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reader, Nevalearn  +, writes (15 August 2007):
Get some strawberry condoms, there a bit of fun and you don't have to worry so much about infections. Don't do it until you are comfortable about it though, most men love oral sex but you shouldn't feel obligated to do it because he does it for you. In time you will want to do it to pleasure him. Have fun!
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (15 August 2007):
 I agree with anon be careful. If in doubt go down on him with a condom, for peace of mind.
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reader, luckymesj +, writes (15 August 2007):
Girl please do it did he ask you about a health risk when he went do on you.But seriously if you think he is faithful go for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): Performing oral sex or "giving a blow job" carries a theoretical risk of transmission for the receptive partner because infected pre-ejaculate ("pre-cum") fluid or semen (cum) can get into the mouth. Any open sores, cold sores, etc. can be a route by which the virus or bacteria can enter the bloodstream and infect. For the insertive partner there is a theoretical risk of infection because infected blood from a partner's bleeding gums or an open sore could come in contact with a scratch, cut, or sore on the penis.
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