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writes:Whats the best way to get over someone whilst making them think about you! me and my bf been split up 2 months (im so gutted)A lot of people might say go out with friends etc but thats not convenient as i work unsociable hours..I just wanna know how i can stop myself phoning my ex bf up and feeling dissapointed when he doesnt wanna meet up.. I know for a fact he still loves me and stuff i really want to try something that wil make him miss me and maybe want to meet up.. But most of all so i dont feel so lost without him!Any ideas?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): I dont know, but i feel the same way you do. I told a guy i couldnt talk to him anymore because i was scared. scared of him breaking my heart. i dont know if he would have or not, but i was so scared that he would that i told him i couldnt talk to him anymore ( of course i didnt tell him that was the reason) but , now i really really miss him. he didnt even respond to me telling him that and i havent herad from him since. i guess the best answer to your question in my opinion would be to NOT break up with someone unless you are definantly sure you do not want to date them anymore. Now, if he breaks up with you, thats a different story...Then you KNOW he doesnt want to be with you..guys dont usually break up with people they want to be with..us girls are the only ones that do silly stuff like that....*much love and sympathy* lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): keep focused on other things. If you look forward and believe that there are other men, much better then this one. Then things can get better fast. One way to make him miss you is by making your last couple conversations, as positive ones. Then ending it on a positive note. He can't help but miss you.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 I'm afraid you are not over someone if you still want that person to miss you.
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reader, lisa21 +, writes (16 August 2007):
get a new sim card delete his number and move on. if you want to get over him then why do you want him to miss you?get you're hair and nails done treat yourself and don't worry about it x x x
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Maybe he knows if you split, then you split for a reason & is being mature & moving on?
I dont think there is any way to make someone miss you or want to get back with you. And you wouldnt want that surely?
But i guess it depends why you split in the first place.
C xxxxx
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reader, agonyauntlisaxxxx +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Just tell urself it ended for a reason and it's a good reason, u cna do better and u will find a great guy one day. You should block and delete his number from ur mobile phone then he can't contact you and you can't contact him.
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reader, broken baby  +, writes (16 August 2007):
have him remember all the good times when you see him show off your laugh, make him remember what he loved in the first place dont call him as much but talk to him for a long time and make sure theres something to talk about
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