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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive not spoken to my bf since 8th Feb, he works away. I held down and tried not to txt or ring but I asked him to ring Friday and never did. I texted on Sat, nothing, and rang yesterday and still nothing. I'm not sure what to do, I cant stop thinking about him, I've been with him for 3 yrs..I often think he's met someone in the city he works.. On Sat I txt him saying you need to tell me if you don't want to be with me instead of ignoring me, then at least I know where I stand..At the moment I feel like texting and saying to collect rest of his stuff, I write it out but never send it.My friend says to leave it, I can do better, but from hearing even via text or call to nothing, I'm finding it hard I'd rather him text to say he doesn't anymore like me... My mum thinks he's playing games and one day will text me.HELP
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 February 2014):
 As long as you can verify he is not in jail or the hospital, then your mother is right he's playing games.
YOU do not want a boy that plays games. AND even if he's 30 if this is how he breaks ups with you or treats you then his mentality is that of a boy.
IF you have been together for three years and there is no sign of ending the distance then I'd say the relationship is pretty much over.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (17 February 2014):
 Have you checked that he's Ok? Does he have history of disappearing for days on end?
Firstly I'd check he's OK. Stop the texting: phone him, from a number other than your own, or hide your caller ID.
If he picks up and sounds fine, then unfortunately you have your answer. If still no joy, do as wise says and contact his family or friends.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2014): This exact same thing happened to me last month. He text me on Jan 9th and said he loved me and I didn't hear from him again. He dumped me by pulling the disappearing act. The sad thing is we were together over 3 years and in our 30's. He's about to turn 36. How mature was that?
I know it's hard but consider your relationship over and let it go. You deserve better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2014): Nine silent days is a long time to go missing in action.
I think maybe he has gone no contact. He would find a way to let you know if he was ill; unless something has happened and he is not conscious to call you.
If you now his family, at least see if they have heard from him. If they have, then you'll know.
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