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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey,I have this problem when getting it on with my bf. When we make out and initiate foreplay, I get really quiet and don't know what to say. Also I think I'm shy of doing things, despite the fact that I am confident to say what I'd do to him when we do sex texts. How can I be more open and relaxed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): you don't need to say anything other than guide him if he does somthing that is painful to you or cause you discomfort.that is all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): That's just it you need to relax, If he feels good tell him, or let your body do the talking, sometimes words are not needed.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Well I don't think most people "say" anything. Fast breathing, moaning, etc... should be plenty enough to let him know you're enjoying yourself. Don't talk, just moan, breathe, and make noise like that and that will fill the silence plenty.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Anyone can be confident over texts because you are hiding behind a phone. I guess you just need to build up your confidence. Let him tell you what he wants and the more he praises you I guess the more confident you will get. Just remember practice does make perfect. So just keep trying to improve in time you will feel more comfortable. However if there is something that you really dont want to do or dont like doing well dont feel forced in to doing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): Comes down to experience really, Your still young so don't worry about it. It will become natural the more you do it
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