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51-59,
anonymous
writes:my fiance doesnt want to give me any oral sex getting really frustrated,im a very pretty girl never had this problem before,i couldnt get ant of my other boyfriends to get out of my vagina,yet he cant even toch it i dont even think ha has ever fingerd me,and the few times he has went down on me its like he is to rough and i have to fake coming cause it hurts its like he is rushing to get it over with,is it possible to have another man on the side just for oral sex,but is that considered cheating!!its ruing our relastionship it makes me think he finds me unattractive and i feel like my feelings towards him are changing,but i dont want them to,i have spoken to him about plent of times but nothing changes,is it cause he is a selfish lover and doesnt care about my needs,hydr bill is getting expensive,cause thats the only was i seem to get off,but thats getting old i need to feel a real man between my legs and foreplay i miss it so much,i feel like having an affair never thoght those words would come out of my mouth,somebody please give me some advice...
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reader, person12345  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Why would you want to stay with a guy who's terrible in bed? If he's not satisfying you and won't even try, then you need to break off the engagement and find someone you're more compatible with. Why would you agree to marry someone who you fake orgasms with and who hurts to have sex with?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 So, your choice is to cheat rather then end the engagement?
Odd.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): yes it would be cheating, unless you told your fiance about your plans to get your needs met by other men and he agreed to it. You can always try bringing that up!!otherwise, you need to confront your fiance about this problem now. it will only get worse after marriage. maybe you two need to see a couples therapist. Otherwise maybe this is not the right man for you and you should just be friends and nothing more.
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