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*oolcrystal
writes:Ill make this brief: Went out on a lunch date with this guy who Im interested in dating. He paid. Said he wanted to see me again after he got back from army training which is only for 2 weeks. After we ate we held hands, kissed..thats about it. When I got home he texted me asking if i got home ok and texted me the next day asking what i was up to. So the following day I text him "hey whats up". He texts back "watching tv." So i felt like i was bugging him so I never replied. Its been two days and still nothing from him. What does this mean? Did he just change his mind about me or what? Please help me understand! I dont know if I should just move on or not give up on him just yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): You're reading way too much into that one text. You asked him what he was doing. He responded and as far as he's concerned it's been radio silence ever since. He might be wondering the same thing about you.
Act as though nothing is wrong and text him a good morning or something. Do yourself a favour and do NOT ask him if he's lost interest in you or what he meant by his text. It will make you look clingy and insecure.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (11 May 2011):
 I think you're trying to get way too much from one text. Before you come to any conclusions it's worth texting or calling him again with a reason. Guys tend not to give long detailed responses to questions like "what's up?" I don't like to make sweeping generalizations about all men or all women, but it seems to be a masculine trait to respond to questions like that with one syllable quick things. He probably was a bit unclear about why you were texting him. So next time have a reason, like do you want coffee or something similar to see how he responds.
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