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26-29,
*atterytea
writes:So I am madly crushing on my teacher. Don't worry this isn't one of those stupid "should I tell him!?" questions. I know he'll never reciprocate my feelings and I never plan to tell him and I am perfectly comfy with him not knowing and liking him from a distance.The REAL problem here is that I suspect he might be cheating on his wife with another teacher.Some background info: my teach is 29 and married with 2 little boys. I totally respect his wife and I think his kids are totally precious. Whenever I see them, I greet them and I don't let my crush show through; basically I act like a generic student. They like me too, and I hope his family stays intact and happy forever. My teacher seems to be very loving to his family too.Then there's the other female teacher. She's a math teacher, just like the teacher I'm crushing on. My teacher is visibly obsessed with math, and even though I know he doesn't wanna show it, you can clearly tell that he favors the kids that are better at math. This female teacher is super attractive and literally all the male students in the school have the hots for her.I heard rumors that my teacher crush and her were having an affair, but I decided not to believe it. Then a few days ago I saw him playfully following her around at a basketball tournament, and he seems to get particularly excited when people bring her up in conversation with him. She likes to come into his classroom and change his computer background playfully, and he never changes it back.The thought of them having an affair makes me crazy angry. I don't want a skank like her tearing apart such a beautiful family. I know I'm not a part of this and I shouldn't intrude, but I wanna kill her. I just feel helpless and I don't want that affair to happen.So guys, do YOU think they're having an affair?And if you do, can I do anything to stop it from happening, even though I'm just a kid?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Stay out of it. They're adults it's their business in which they can handle it however they please. Unfortunately you're a child who has no right to intervene. Even if you were adult, it still wouldn't be your place.
Keep your nose in your own business and not the teacher you're crushing on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): NO- butt out~! You have a crush and THINK that your teacher is cheating with another one... odds are very high that you're wrong, and even if you're right you have NO right to get involved. If you say something and you're right you'll stir up a world of crap, if you say something and you're wrong you'll stir up a world of crap- you lose either way unless you BUTT OUT!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (8 May 2011):
 What business is it of yours? Basically you have a crush on him and you don't like the idea of him liking someone else. If you try to intervene you could ruin his marriage. Stay out of it. Stay way out of it. Don't even try to intervene. Sounds like he has a crush on her, nothing more anyways. But it doesn't matter anyways because you need to stay out of it, it's none of your business what they do.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Just don't get involved. Not your business. IF they are having an affair then it will probably pass and he and his family will get on with their happy lives. If you try to "fix" the situation then you will likely make it much worse.
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