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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, i have a really small and thin penis and don't think i pleasure her when we have sex. she has told me she has had some huge penises before and her last boyfriend was the biggest she has ever had but tells me I'm the best f**k she has had. is she being honest? Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (26 October 2011):
 "For all the crap that men get blamed for nothing compares to this."
It would be nice, and it is inconsiderate to say. It's not worse than what women have to deal with. At least you don't have to deal with actually being able to see other men's penises in public and being told to be OK with it when your partner stares at them, like women have to deal with with their breasts.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (25 October 2011):
It would be nice if women didn't tell you about the size of other guys members. For all the crap that men get blamed for nothing compares to this.
The reality is woman dont have a lot of feeling in their vaginas. I only discovered this after I bought her a dildo and a vibrator, I was very disappointed that neither were keenly accepted, and in the dark of the underblanket experimented with some other objects, she only noticed if something went too deep and hurt. I can make her orgasm with penetration but I know she prefers my index finger it reaches just the right places and in the right way. So don't worry, just enjoy!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 October 2011):
 I doubt she's lying. my current bf is the smallest I've ever had and I am perfectly satisfied
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reader, stressedandtired +, writes (24 October 2011):
 It doesn't really matter what size your penis is. I have had both huge and small. But the fact is, when you have strong feelings for someone the sex is wonderful. A man can be huge but if the feelings are not there the sex is basically worthless.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 October 2011):
If the sex wasn't great, what good does it do her to lie about it? Then she's stuck having crappy sex for a long time. Logically, lying about it makes no sense. The vast majority of women can't orgasm from penetration, so penis size is generally a moot point if we're talking about sexual satisfaction.Though I have to say, sometimes guys who worry that their penis size is causing dissatisfaction are ignoring the main ways that women are pleasured in bed (oral and fingers).Does she orgasm when you have sex (sex includes oral sex and digital stimulation)? If yes, then she's not lying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): Do you really dig her, do you like the way she looks, do you like the way she dresses, do you like to hear her voice, does she rock your world, do you think she is great, do you buy her flowers, do you call her and ask to be with her because she makes you feel great when she is around, do you feel good when she has sex with you?Do you make sure she knows this? Do you tell her this? If the answer to all these questions is honestly yes, then more likely than not you are the best fuck she's ever had.You can fuck a dog (I mean a real dog) or a chicken, or a hornets nest, a prostitute, or a plastic blow up toy.But, when you have sex with someone who you like, and who knows that you like them, something happens in the brain that doesn't happen during sex with people who don't care about you.That is where great sex happens.Penis size isn't what gives that reaction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): If she's telling you that you're the best f**k she's ever had, then you're most likely to be the best f**k she's ever had! Period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): The honest answer is that there is no way to know for sure if she's being honest.
For purposes of discussion, assume she's not being 100% honest. How would this change things? Would you break up with her because she had better sex with other men? If you start going out with someone else, how are you ever going to know for sure you're the best she's ever had?
Nobody likes to say this, but the reality is that most of us are probably not the absolute best sex our significant other has ever had, especially if he or she has been with a few people.
Some things you can change, some things you can't. Try to focus on the things you can change. You can't choose to be built like a porn star, but you choose to be the best possible version of you.
Let your girlfriend decide if that's good enough. If it's not, you can find someone else.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Probably, yes. Why would she lie? If the sex isn't good and she lies about it being great then things wont ever improve and she'll be digging her own grave. If she lies in the end it only makes things bad for her.
Do YOU think the sex is great? Are you enjoying it? Let her worry about herself for a while and make sure that YOU are feeling great as well.
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