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Is there a big chance I could be pregnant?

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Question - (13 February 2010) 11 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ittlemisshelpful writes:

Hey everyone:)

I need help.

IM 14 years old and iv been going out with my bf for 3 months.. About a month ago, i gave him a hand job, but he DIDNT cum.

Then, i walked home and went to the toilet without washing my hands.. Is there a big chance i could be pregnant. i havent had any of the signs. and i had my period a few days later but that might of been somin else i dono.

thankss i need lots of helpp.

xx

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (15 February 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntCan you be pregnant but still have your period?

You could be experiencing virginal bleeding which you thought was your menstruation.

You cannot be absolute sure till you have a pregnancy test .

Reference:-

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Can_you_be_pregnant_but_still_have_your_period

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A female reader, abcdefgh United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2010):

i have also been in this situation it is a 3% chance that you could be pregnant but as you stated you had a period like bleeding so your safe as far as im concerned.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (15 February 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntThe life span of sperm after they're ejaculated depends on the environmental conditions.

Sperm ejaculated outside the body usually live only a *FEW HOURS*(3or 4 hours).If it is cold and wet , it will live longer .

Sperm ejaculated into a woman's vagina remain alive in the mucus of the cervix and are able to fertilize an egg for three to five days.

from:-

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pregnancy/AN00281

PRECUM DOES NOT HAVE SEMEN OR SPERM UNLESS PICKED UP FROM A PREVIOUS EJACULATION...

There is a limited amount of sperm in pre cum. Not to mention all the obsticles it has to go through to get to the egg!

That tiny amount of sperm must survive the vaginal acid, break through the egg and be on that one day a month that women are able to get pregnant!

Although it is a slight chance, it is still a chance!It is not *NIL* There is a possibility even though the chances are very slim.( Maybe 0.1% to 1%) It is like striking the first prize in the lottery.

One ejaculation may discharge from 300 millions to 750 million sperms and all it takes is only 1 sperm to make you pregnant.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010):

If you don't know how you get pregnant then you shouldnt be doing anything. YOUR 14

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010):

Not a chance in h*ll you could be pregnant. Sperm dies within minutes outside of the human body. And even if you rubbed his fresh sperm against your vagina there's a slim chance to be pregnant. He didn't even cum. There's no way you could be pregnant from this, so relax.

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A female reader, JustMex United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2010):

JustMex agony auntNO. There is no change let alone a small chance. Even if he came and then did the same thing you still wouldn't get pregnant because the sperm would have died within that time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010):

There might be more of a possibility of him becoming pregnant from it. But to be serious, that's an easy one..no... It would be different if you were touching yourself down there after coming into contact with any of his cum. It just has to breach the edge of your snatch and the sperm can honestly find their way along up inside. Alot of people don't know this, which is not good, because they get pregnant from the very same thing. As far as you being pretty sure your hand wasn't in contact with it, there's a next to zero percent chance.

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A female reader, littlemisshelpful United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2010):

littlemisshelpful is verified as being by the original poster of the question

sorry :/ I dont plan to have sex anytime soon. i wana enjoy life first! :))

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2010):

aphexinfinite agony auntchance of you being pregnant is nil but if your really worried wait over two weeks take a pregnancy test. just remember to wash hand as their is precum could get sticky lol. since your so young i would suggest you becareful and dont do sex before your of age not to mention read up more about sexual actvity so that you are more aware of your body his and consequences for your action this way when something happens you will know how to deal with it better. also when you become of age you will have a better knoweldge for when you find that someone special. good luck aphex xx

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A female reader, Alexia1991 United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2010):

Its really not that likely AT ALL

especially if you've had a period and he didn't cum at the time

but if you're still really worried (which I dont think you should be) about it then get a test and just be careful in future

:) xx

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2010):

k_c100 agony auntThere is NO chance you are pregnant. Semen (i.e. his cum) has to enter your vagina in order for you to get pregnant. Therefore if there is no semen (i.e. no cum) then you cant be pregnant.

There is pre-cum, which tends to just leak out of the penis before a guy actually cums, but this is only a tiny amount and the chances of there being enough on your hands, then you actually putting your hand into your vagina is pretty slim.

So as long as he didnt cum and you did not put your hand into your vagina when you went to the toilet then no you are not pregnant.

I suggest you read up on sex and pregnancy before you start fooling around with your boyfriend because it seems you dont know too much about sex and how you get pregnant. So just read around online about conception, pregnancy, birth control and sex and you should be in a much better position to start becoming sexually active with your boyfriend.

I hope this helps and good luck!

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