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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:OK, I want help so that I can get over this crush of mine. It is really bothering me, because firstly I only want to be friendly! And secondly this GUY (obvious wasn't it?) is a TEACHER. I can't fancy a teacher! It will ruin me! I don't want to enjoy it, or just let it flow...I want it gone.A strange thing is, is that I didn't even know I had these feelings until yesterday:I had gone to an after-school club/session with my spanish teacher, and then when I was leaving I was walking down the stairs - and Mr X is walking up at the same time...for some reason, when I looked at him my entire body had a sudden rush of heat, and my face! I'm sure it went bright red! I had - before that moment - had absolutely NO feelings towards him...he was simply just one of my teachers. But when the shock came over me, and he looked at me...it was weird I'm telling you. When he saw me coming down the stairs he said something but I honestly had no idea what he said O.O so I just smiled. I was so embarrassed!Is this really what a crush can do to you? What's going to happen to my work and stuff? How am I going to even look at him during class?! Today was weird too. He was coming out of the lunch hall and I was leaving the music room and when we sort of bumped into eachother he just said "oh.." as if he was suprised to see me (we didn't actually bump into eachother, we just walked very close). And that made me reaaaaally hot and bothered.I see this guy pretty much every day, so what can I do? Can I fall out of fancy or crush - and how? Especially with a teacher as that is extra bad!One more thing.....is it..normal, to fancy someone at least twice the age of you?Thanks,Kazza
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 You are not alone. Many girls of your age goes through those experiences and it is a process of your growing up lessons in life.
You will learn and make mistakes in life . Other girls have shared their experiences on this link ;-
http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/help-i-am-falling-in-love-with-my-teacher/.
I hope it would help you to understand those feelings that you are going through and act accordingly.
In love, everything is possible and nothing is weird.
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (10 February 2010):
 Hi there.
Don't worry about being attracted to a teacher or an older man. Sometimes you will just get crushes and attractions to people for no apparent reason at all! It can seem completely random and inappropriate who you are attracted to, like your teacher. Unfortunatly this just happens sometimes and you just cant put your finger on why you feel this way about them and around them.
Try to remember it is just a crush. It could be something to do with biology. Certain people are attracted to certain people, it can be certain facial characteristics or it could be pheramones in his sweat that tells your body he is a genetically compatable partner. Just laugh it off. Remind yourself its just one of those things and its not actually you who've chosen to be attracted to your teacher, its just one of those mysteries in life. The crush will most likely fade in time :)
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