I'm worried that his sperm may have leaked down from "there" into my vagina because I don't want to get pregnant!
Q. Everyone I need help. Don't get me wrong when I ask this question but how possible is it to get pregnant from anal sex? My boyfriend didn't use protection and I'm worried that his sperm may have leaked down into my vagina. I really don't know what ...
A. 24 June 2008: Sweetie, there is a very, very slim chance of pregnancy but should you carry on being sexual I suggest that you find some suitable contaceptive so that you dont have to worry about falling pregnant. ... (read in full...)
I believe he wouldn't lie to me even if the truth hurt- am I being a fool?
Q. hi I met this guy at work a few month after breaking up with the father of my child. We were really good friends and we just clicked. He also has a child and a wife but they have been seperated for 2 and a half years. He is so kind to me and I kn...
A. 24 June 2008: This has nothing to do with race, it has to do with the man who sounds like he is insecure and wants the best of both worlds. Sweetie, if he is in love with you, then why is he treating you this way... and yes it is possible he has been cheating on ... (read in full...)
I'm falling for an older married man....
Q. I am a 23-year-old graduate student falling for a guy 15 years older than me. He's my coworker and we both work with a large consultant organization overseas. I am new to the job (as of a month) and due to travel, have had to spend tons of ti...
A. 20 June 2008: What is 'not officially divorced'?? He is still married even if they are living in different countries.... Sorry Sweetie, but he sounds like a cheater... ... (read in full...)
I want him back so much!! What do I do??
Q. up until last week i had been seeing a married man for ten years we were perfectly happy and i loved him to pieces and accepted the situation, recently i took up golf and started getting some new girlfriends to play golf with, this was great cus it ...
A. 20 June 2008: I suspect he has met someone else and has now cheated on you... after being with someone for 10 years then to start acting all weird.... I really hate to say this, but you were in a relationship with a cheater and now he has done the same to you... ... (read in full...)
Rediscovered each other, but we both have partners. What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid I have been seeing some one who I have been in love with for years but we had only just discovered each other again. He felt the same but we always managed to miss each other through life. It has been going on for 4 months but the pain of ...
A. 20 June 2008: Honestly... as hard as its going to be you have to cut all ties with him and put your energy back into your marriage. A marriage cannot grow if one partner is constantly longing for someone else... Perhaps seek counselling to help you to cope. ... (read in full...)
Man charged with sexual assault to me, I feel sorry for him and am scared.
Q. This isnt really about relationships but i value everyones advice on this site and iv always came here in the past with troubles. so im hoping you guy can help me now. A good few months ago a man who i new from a rival store to the one that i w...
A. 20 June 2008: Why do you feel guilty??? He was sexually harassing you and hopefully will get what he deserves. Do you really think that you are the first woman he has harassed?? Sweetie, you did nothing wrong!... (read in full...)
Will antibiotics and alcohol make me ill?
Q. Quickkk! I've been on antibiotics since yesterday morning, i went to the morning and got some pink tablets from it as i have an inflamed toe. But the thing is its my birthday today and im going out tonight with all my mates to get absoloutely blad...
A. 20 June 2008: Sorry sweetie, rather wait until you have finished your antibiotics before you go party - alcohol and antibiotics dont mix! Oh, and Happy Birthday for today!!... (read in full...)
We're always fighting but I don't want to leave.
Q. Hey Guys... ok me an my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now an i do love him very much, but he is always fighting with me over nothin im constantly cryin an am so over it! it always over stupid things like today i was doing his washin an ...
A. 20 June 2008: Sweetie, time to face facts... this man sees you as his slave and is treating you like dirt!! Sounds like he has an abusive personality and the more abuse you take from him the more he will abuse you. If this is how he treats you after only 7 ... (read in full...)
How do you sleep when your partner isn't there?
Q. Not really a problem, just curious. This spring my girlfriend took a trip to see her family and she had been preparing her luggage and I noticed she had put in some t-shirts of mine. She frequently wears them as night shirts but there were from ...
A. 20 June 2008: When my husband goes away for long periods of time I sometimes sleep in his t-shirts, when I can smell his aftershave.. its comforting! I think it is so sweet that she uses your t-shirts to remind her of you....... (read in full...)
At first I thought it his shyness was cute, but now it's just annoying.
Q. There's this boy that I'm practically in love with. The thing is though that the other day one of my guy friends and I were talking and he said that the boy I like doesn't 'get it' yet. I mean, he doesn't know what to do when a girl likes him. Like, ...
A. 20 June 2008: Sweetie, this young guy has only learnt how to flirt with girls, then he hits a dead-end!! Hes probably not sure what to do so I suggest that you start chatting to him, he is probably so nervous and doesnt want to make a fool of himself in front of ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a girl to get wet without really feeling horny at all?
Q. Is it possible for a girl to get wet without really feeling horny at all?...
A. 20 June 2008: Yes, there is nothing unusual about a woman getting wet without feeling horny. Its the body's way of cleansing itself... ... (read in full...)
I don't feel comfortable using new sex positions yet - How can I make him understand?
Q. My name is Amanda and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 almost 4 momths. Everything is going really good we have alot in common but we recently chose to become intimate with one another and all he ever talkes about are these different ...
A. 20 June 2008: I agree with Pepper27, you need to communicate your feelings to your boyfriend and if he gets moody, ignore him!... (read in full...)
How can I get my parents to trust us?
Q. Me and my boyfriend, we were planning to stay at the chalet for a few nights. we're going to share a bed but my parents were afraid that we would have sex. how can i persuade them?...
A. 20 June 2008: Sweetie, you are at the age when the hormones are rushing through your bodies and sex is on the mind almost constantly... your parents were once your age and they probably remember what it was like to be horney... My suggestion to you is for you ... (read in full...)
How wet is normal?
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old lesbian girl. And I am madly in love with my girlfriend. She's amazing and I can't wait to finaly make love with her. We talk about sex alot and tonight she asked me if the wetness I get in vagina is excessive or normal. I ...
A. 20 June 2008: Sweetie, I dont think there is a 'normal' which applies to everyone. Some women get much wetter than others, it is just how your body works. When you are aroused your vagina will secrete more fluid than at other times. ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that he has so many different fetishes?
Q. I have an ex boyfriend who I see every now and again. He and I are very comfortable with each other, especially in a sexual sense, and have discussed the possibility getting back together in the future. Recently he's confessed that he wants to try ...
A. 20 June 2008: Sweetie, eventhough you are both comfortable with each other sexually, only you can decide if you are comfortable trying out these different ideas.... Sex during your period could be rather messy but not too much to worry about.. Having to pee ... (read in full...)
Was this long distance relationship a fantasy and a farce?
Q. I am gutted as my long ditance g\f broke with me but friends say it was a farce. What do you guys think? * In jan 2007 I had 10 days with a girl in NZ, full of passion and affection. I am from UK * Between Jan 07 and April 07 we email and ph...
A. 19 June 2008: Sweetie, think of it as a 12 month holiday romance... when you are on holiday everythings just great, contact via email and phone is also just great.... but when it comes to the crunch and you spend more time in your own environment with that person ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the office whore!
Q. so i was in a porn movie about 5 years ago when i was 20, (i was in a very dire and bad situation in my life) but i have grown and learnt from that experience and i have gone to school and got myself a job on a magazine. I am very happy with how I ...
A. 19 June 2008: What are the chances that she will find out you were in a porn movie?? Did they use your name in the movie otherwise if she does find out about it, deny it! We all have 'doubles' in this world, so whos to say that you dont just resemble a porn ... (read in full...)
Was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before?
Q. This question may sound really stupid and weird, but I was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before? I am 22 and my boyfriend and I are doing a post- april fools sort of sex surprise thing, we are meeting up together...
A. 19 June 2008: Hehehehe - sorry for laughing!! Okay, since its got to be sexual why dont you wear nipple caps or cover your nipples in glitter and shave all your pubic hair off? Dont know how you would straighten your pubic hair.. if you use a hair straightener ... (read in full...)
My wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman what do I do?
Q. I am married, my wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman, and she has been sexually active with her. We have a very honest marriage and I appreciate this. I said I don’t mind and still don’t the, hole thing turns me on and ...
A. 19 June 2008: Okay, you say you are a bit jealous.... it seldom ever works with a third person in a marriage, and the woman your wife is having an affair with [yes, it is an affair] could cause problems in your relationship. At the moment you are probably ... (read in full...)
Is this abusive behavior. I feel useless !
Q. After a wonderful one year relationship i moved in with my girlfriend. Now it seems i can't do anything right. She criticizes me for the littlest things like how i fold the bathroom towels, the way i wash up and dry, how i make the bed, where i ...
A. 19 June 2008: When I first got married, little things my husband did drove me crazy.. but time passes and you get used to the things they do. What I am saying is, there is a chance the relationship could work... but.. there must be some respect shown and putting ... (read in full...)
I don't want my husband to leave me
Q. i have been married now 16 years, in the last 3 years its been going down hill.my husband dont show any love towards me any more, no kiss, hug, not even a smile,sex is maybe every 2 months, i found out he has been talking to a female employee of ...
A. 19 June 2008: Sounds like things have really deteriorated between the two of you, you need to have a long chat to him, with all the evidence you have of phone calls etc and find out what is going on. Maybe things have gotten stale between the two of you and the ... (read in full...)
I am turned on my others looking at my wife is it normal
Q. Hi we have been invited to a friends house for dinner this next week with another couple. the last time we stayed over,we all ended up in the spa and things became steamy, we were all nude. I enjoyed the attention my wife got and at the...
A. 19 June 2008: At the time I suppose it was naughty fun, but perhaps afterwards your wife realised that things could have gotten out of hand. You say you enjoyed the attention shown to your wife, but she is unsure.. dont force the issue and it could cause ... (read in full...)
Both he and I are in serious relationships already..so what's going on?
Q. Okay - There's a guy that I've known throughout this whole year. And we've gotten on really good terms. Both he and I are in serious relationships already. But I've gotten pretty acquainted with him, I've sent him a couple of emails with...
A. 19 June 2008: I see you have two choices here, either you ditch your current boyfriend and go with the new guy or you put more effort into making your current relationship work and distance yourself from the other guy. Is there something lacking in your current ... (read in full...)
A a fresh start no lying or cheating. how can we make this work?
Q. i have been with my g/f for about 8 months and i have cheated on her 3 times. i dont know why i did it but i do know that i love her. i have been used to having more than one girl in the past but never been in a relationship, apart from my daughters ...
A. 19 June 2008: Honestly...I dont know why you are shocked that your current girlfriend doesnt trust you. You have given her reasons not to trust you. She loves you but I wonder if you really love her? If you do, then why cheat on her??? It may take a very long ... (read in full...)
Why don't I ever get asked out?
Q. Im very attractive and i have only been asked out once (im 19) I get whistled at by guys a lot and lots of them say im hot and try to use me for sex but never want a relationship with me. I dont get it, Im tall, athletic, smart, funny and ive even ...
A. 19 June 2008: Its possible that guys think someone as beautiful as you would have a boyfriend already.... Some might feel a bit intimidated and too shy to ask you out. Best thing is just to carry on with your life and wait until the right guy comes along. If ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to date your sister's boyfriend's sister?
Q. Is it okay to date your sisters boyfriends sister...
A. 19 June 2008: I dont see a problem, if you like her then go for it!... (read in full...)
She's 21 and wants to party alone before the ring...
Q. Ok, I was 21 she was 17, everything was happy. Fast foward 4 years and some and now I'm 25 and she's 21 we've been living together for 2 years and she's just perfect for me. I tell her I want to get engaged just a week or two after her 21st bi...
A. 19 June 2008: Why dont you suggest putting off the engagement until she has 'sown her wild oats'? She obviously feels that by committing to marriage that all the fun will stop! It might be an idea to see a relationship counsellor to iron out any possible ... (read in full...)
I'm confused that he likes to kiss me and touch me like he is my boyfriend? Can this FWB relationship actually be something else?
Q. I know this guy for about 3 months. We saw each other mostly in our university class, and then decided to hang out, which by the way only happened twice.The 1st day, we hung for a long time,then at the end of the day, he wanted to do it to me, and ...
A. 19 June 2008: Sorry Sweetie, but this guy wants a FWB! He is not interested in you as a person otherwise surely after 1 day he would not propose to have sex with you!! This guy is a jerk and I suggest you move on as he will only give you heartache. ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex, he pulled out but some semen dripped near... what are the chances of getting pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex yesterday with my boyfriend and he pulled out RIGHT before he came, none got inside me but some dripped near that region and now I'm worried. What are the chances of getting pregnant over something like that?...
A. 18 June 2008: Sweetie, go get the 'morning after' pill as a matter of urgency, and dont have unprotected sex! Remember that pre-cum also contains some sperm.. so there could be a possiblity of falling pregnant! Perhaps you and your boyfriend should discuss what ... (read in full...)
How do we get back at this guy? He lied to both of us about being separated!
Q. I'm in a really horrible situation, and really need advice as to how i can get back at this guy. I met a guy called Paul about a month ago and we ended up flirting. He was wearing a wedding ring and I brought it up and he said he was seperating ...
A. 18 June 2008: He was wearing a wedding ring and so smooth that he managed to talk you into sex??? Damn he must be good.. must have had a lot of practise. Do the 3-some thing, or even tie him to a bed then leave him there, naked!! Oh and dont forget to take his ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he isn't in love with me any more. Should I keep trying?
Q. Ive been with my partner for 5years. The last 6months ive had depression and i didnt no, but in that time i said nasty stuff to him that i didnt mean. Last weekend we broke up over the phone as we live with his parents in their garage and it was ...
A. 18 June 2008: He's actually avoiding the truth by saying that he loves you but is not in love with you. Either hes in love with you or not in love with you! Hes being a coward who cannot face telling you the truth. And how could he love you if he slept with ... (read in full...)
Is my Internet Lover having an affair?
Q. Right. Im in a long distance relationship. We only ever talk over msn. I really like him, hes a really nice guy and i met him over facebook. Yeah i know its risky, and hes 3 years older than me. But we get on really well. But Im really scared...
A. 18 June 2008: Sorry Sweetie, you are living in a dreamworld!! The man you are 'in love with' is just having fun with you. I agree with Older Sister and marieclaire. Rather form relationships with real people not over the internet where fantasy takes over! I ... (read in full...)
I told her I fought with depression in the past, now she does not want to see me anymore! Is she thinking about us or really ignoring me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this girl for 2 months. At the moment we are in differnt cities about 1hr flight apart. A couple of weeks ago during a weekend visit to her, we were discussing our past experiences where I mentioned that a couple of...
A. 18 June 2008: If this treatment is what you get from being open with this girl, well then I think you need to look elsewhere for a relationship. She obviously has more issues in life and cannot accept you as you are. If she is looking for the 'perfect' person ... (read in full...)
Caught between my girlfriend and her mother
Q. I am going out with my 52 year old girlfriend and I am 40. She has been divorced for two years. She is getting very uptight and emotional, because her mother is extremely hypocritical about our relaionship, She is not getting over her ex who was a ...
A. 18 June 2008: I think that at 52yrs old your girlfriend should be able to make her own decisions in life! She should tell her mother to stop interferring. Suggest that perhaps the mother goes for counselling, maybe she feels that you are a threat and will take ... (read in full...)
What hurts the most is that my parents bring my ex up in conversations and blame me for losing a potentially good husband, as most others think! Help me deal with this painful situation!
Q. I feel really inadequate to my ex bf who broke up with me. I cant seem to get over the feeling of him not wanting to be with me anymore. It doesn't help that he never gave me a real reason for breaking up with me, or that it was in a text message. I ...
A. 18 June 2008: Your ex has a problem!! He is obviously very insecure and needs to change or 'fix' his girlfriend into someone who he feels is the right person... Ignore what his friends are saying, as I am sure after a while your ex will start 'fixing' things ... (read in full...)
My abusive ex has decided that he wants me back, since he found out I was dating again! Should I return to him after he kicked me and our son out??
Q. well i was in a relationship for about 4 years going on to 5 this year, we met when we were in high school i was a junior and he was a senior. we dated for about 5 motnhs when i came out preagnant. we decided to keep the baby and u know i thought he ...
A. 18 June 2008: He abused you, he cheated on you, he kicked you out of your house.... now why would you want to leave a loving relationship with your current man to go back to your ex? It is guaranteed that he will have not changed and will continue to abuse and ... (read in full...)
Do you think I have done anything to make him like this?
Q. It seems like my boyfriend of over a year has changed and doesn't want to be with me anymore. I've confronted him and he tells me he does but we've not kissed in weeks, he seems short tempered with me and we've not had sex in months! Do yo...
A. 9 June 2008: You need to sit down with your boyfriend and discuss exactly where the relationship is going and how you both feel about ehch other. He says he wants to be with you, yet there is no affection between you two. There seems to be an underlying ... (read in full...)
Relationship problem's--he hit's me sometimes! Is he fixable?
Q. Hey i have a question, now i'm sure you've heard this god knows how many time's. But Let's start out short. I have a boyfriend and i'v been dating him for the pass 7 month's ( NOT THAT LONG ) And i really super love him, i feel that ther...
A. 9 June 2008: Your situation will not get better, in fact it will get worse! No matter how much you love this man it will not change the fact that he has hit you. You must leave, for your own safety. And for you only dating him for 7 months and he is behaving ... (read in full...)
He wants me back but isnt sure what to do with the girl he is dating now? Help!
Q. Well, I recently posted up stuff about my x and i... WELLLL... We ended up sort of working things out and now out of random we got into one little fight and now he is dating some 16 year old? OUT OF RANDOM!!!! That day he asked her out he was ...
A. 9 June 2008: This guy sounds like he really doesnt know what he wants, and if he is trying to get you back while being with his girlfriend, well that tells me that he wants his bread buttered on both sides! Rather move on with your life and forget him!... (read in full...)
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