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I am always open to listen to people and give as much honest advice as i can on any subject.
Im a very romantic person and love everything to do with romance and love.
Love doesn't make the world go 'round; love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
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Married, had an affair and now wondering if I was just looking through things with rose colored glasses on?
Q. I have been married for 27 years and we have three children, 17, 13, and 12. For several years my wife had been reluctant to engage in sex, and I had become increasingly frustrated, both physically and emotionally. At work I had got to know a g...
A. 26 November 2009: You need to respect your wife and the other women, ask yourself if your bit on the side said she wanted to be with you 2moro what would you say? If its yes then you must let your wife go.....she cant play second best its not fair, i could understand ... (read in full...)
Hair removal gone wrong
Q. Ok my problem is a little bit embarressing! Me and my bf were going to take things the whole way and have sex so i decided to shave down there but i had a huge prob the next it was so sore and irritable and there was like loads of little spots. I ...
A. 26 November 2009: Use a cream for sensitive skin....there are loads of creams out there.....i tried wax before not for me to painful.....if not use a good shaver!... (read in full...)
I made love with my friend in a moment of weakness. What do I do now?
Q. okay me and my boyfriend have been going on and off for a year and a half. we always get in yelling fights and everything but at the end of the day its all better, but when we were in a fight i went to my friends thats a guy and he made me feel ...
A. 9 October 2009: If you tell your boyfriend he will prob leave you...take it as you have learnt your lesson it was just sex now time to move on and figure out if you want to be with your boyfriend or not....but if it was a mistake and you know it was wrong and wont ... (read in full...)
How likely is it that he will stop wanting to see me because I need to lose a few pounds?
Q. I've been dating this guy for about 2.5 months. Last night I was at his house and we were messing around and he started to undress me. Just before we started dating I gained about 10 lbs, and even though I know my weight/body is average, I'm very ...
A. 5 October 2009: If he doesnt accept your body then get rid of him....a man should want all of you....is he perfect im sure not....dont change for ANY man!
If you are unhappy with your weight then you can always diet but do it for yourself not any man!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with someone else out of the blue; why would he do this?
Q. My boyfriend of over 2 and a half years has slept with someone else. He came to mine on Saturday, we had great sex, then went to the fair then for a lovely meal. He then went to a friend in London's housewarming party, coming back the next da...
A. 5 October 2009: You don't have to have a reason to cheat...some people just do it...doesnt mean there is anything wrong with you....its his mistake not yours.....the hardest part now is will you ever be able to trust him again? I have a friend going through the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my brother's g/f
Q. Im 21, my brother is 23 an his gf is 23. They have been together for almost 2 years now. We have always been close friends, she is so caring, nuturing, an She is so beautiful, smart, sweet and overal a very nice person. He treats her like shit, he ...
A. 18 September 2009: Are you ready to lose your brother for this girl?
Plus you must think to yourself if shes flirting with you behind your brothers back who else is she flirting with...if you got with her could you ever trust her?
Id say stay clear as this is your ... (read in full...)
Feeling lonely... is my boyfriend going off me?
Q. Hi everyone. I dont know whether im being pathetic but this is just the way i feel. I'll start by telling you how old me n my partner are as i feel at this age i shouldnt be having these problems. im 23 and partner 24 and we av bin togetheer for 2 ...
A. 18 September 2009: Well sex is part of a healthy relationship....but you shouldnt have sex just because you say a man has needs...soo do you as a women...you should be made to feel sexy and attractive as his girlfriend and mother of his child....it might be because ... (read in full...)
Do all guys go off a girl when they've been together for a while?
Q. Do all guys go off a girl when they've been together for a while, like a year? I know you have to work at relationships but it just seems that my boyfriend has more fun playing games n having a laugh with his online friends that he rarely thinks ...
A. 18 September 2009: Nope ive been with my boyfriend over 4 years now im 22 hes 26 and we fancy each other more then we did when we first met, were now alot more comfy with each other and have been thru so much which makes you close....but i always do my hair and makeup ... (read in full...)
Is this selfish of her or am I overeacting?
Q. Do you think it's selfish of my best friend to buy a new dress to go out clubbing for my birthday (On Saturday) when she knows very well I'm only going to be wearing black pants and a nice top? I DON'T wear dresses, period. She knows that. OH she ...
A. 18 September 2009: She is prob doing it so she gets all the attention i also have a friend like that you say dress casual and she turns up all tarted up.....its maybe a issue she has with herself...but let her get on with it...im sure your look just as great but ENJOY ... (read in full...)
Her fancy dress nights from the past are getting me down.
Q. Hi, I'm in a loving relationship with a wonderful girl and have been for almost a year. However I have an issue. I can't get over the fact that when she was single she used to love dressing up on fancy dress nights and Halloween etc. Obviou...
A. 18 September 2009: You need to get these silly thoughts out your head....or you will lose this girl! She has given you no sign of cheating etc to make you jealous or worry so why waste time feeling this way when you should be enjoying each other and be proud you got ... (read in full...)
How can I let her know that I'm willing to wait until she is ready for us to be together again?
Q. My girlfriend and i broke up the other day on good terms after a long good relationship. She says she just needs to figure some things out, we are still friends and still see eachother. I'm just wondering how to let her know that I am willing to ...
A. 28 August 2009: I am going through the same thing though it is my boyfriend who i broke up with as i needed to sort some things out in my head....we still text and meet...he always lets me know im here for you etc....give it time the fact your meeting is a good ... (read in full...)
Will my relationships never survive without me sacrificing my friendships and career?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of three years yesterday. He is the only man I have ever loved and he made me feel more loved than anyone could possibly explain. I broke up with him because even though our relationship was so fantastic, other aspects ...
A. 28 August 2009: The balance has to be made by you and only you....you chose to be with your partner more then friends....if you want it all you have to make time for it all...you can have a good relationship and still have friends and career of course if not noo ... (read in full...)
Confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time!
Q. Hi, Basically a straight forward question. I'm confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time. I've heard it loads of times about 'breaking in' etc but still don't get it, is it messy like a mate of mine said years ago? what ...
A. 13 August 2009: It will probably hurt but not all women experience this pain everyone's different...as for the blood it will probably show when you wipe yourself...it doesnt pour out or go everywhere its usually a really small amount you probably won't even ... (read in full...)
A few questions about boy's behaviour...
Q. Every girl in this world looks for that one boy who will always stand by her side,the one who will love her til the end « from start to finish »,the boy who protects her and the boy who would die for her.poeple say :there are always a boy and a girl ...
A. 6 August 2009: No no no.....sometimes people fall inlove....have a great relationship and stay together for many years....if you have not been through a bad relationship then dont start worrying about it now....lifes to short enjoy it....there are some great ... (read in full...)
We have gone from a non-existent sex life to a very adventurous sex life, but I cant help feel concerned!
Q. I have a question... My husband and I are in our late 30's. Married 5 years. both on 2nd marriage. Sex life almost non-existent past year or so. It happened insiduously. Probably due to stress and work and forgetting to stop and focus on the ot...
A. 6 August 2009: Hang on you moan when your not getting any now you moan hes wanting it to much....You are a very lucky lady alot of sexlifes just fizzel out and thats it....your man wants to try new and kinky stuff.....just enjoy and give the man some credit for ... (read in full...)
I'm missing something during sex!
Q. My girlfriend is very sensitive about her body. I have managed to raise her confidence and she says during sex she is more open than with exes, but sill i´m missing something during sex. I have a few questions. She doesn´t want me to pleasure her ...
A. 6 August 2009: Well the whole going down on a lady then trying to kiss her....alot of women dont like that so that sounds normal....maybe her confidence with her body is effecting her sexdrive and what she wants to do with you....talk to her...ask her if theres ... (read in full...)
I feel so hurt, he wont speak to me because I told people about our relationship!
Q. I met this guy, i really like him, we have had sex a few times and he wants to keep it discreet although i know he is seeing other people, he has told me a lot about what he gets up to. He wont speak to me cos i have told people ive seen him! What ...
A. 6 August 2009: Hun it sounds like you have had a lucky escape!!!
Move on....you deserve a man who wants to show you off to the world....not someone you have be discreet with....hes a waste of space and you deserve much much better....get out there and start dati... (read in full...)
Did my husband text her acknowledging a lunchtime blowjob?
Q. Hi again everyone. Just an update about the 'situation' and more need for help. I am the wife trying to come to terms with the texting husband and discovered more texts on his old phone, one calling her a 'dirty little minx' but none of ...
A. 31 July 2009: She might of texted him what she wanted to do to him or what she was doing to herself at the time....maybe they were sending rude msgs but doesnt mean anything has happened....but still your husband should not be doing this. ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Could she possibly want more?
Q. I got some great answers from some guys on this but was hoping for a female point of view :) Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked th...
A. 31 July 2009: Smelly is a pet name.....my best friend uses it for the people shes close to....so i say its a good sign!... (read in full...)
It's his first time getting a blowjob, can I get a std?
Q. I've been dating this guy for months now, and we are absolutely crazy about each other. I know him well, and know for a fact that he has never been sexually active with anyone. He is super shy, and has told me he hasn't, and I can honestly say I ...
A. 31 July 2009: Even though he says he's not be sexually active you don't know for a fact....use a condom first until you have been with him longer!... (read in full...)
Does she like me or something?
Q. I go to the gym 3 days a week, I see 2 girls who go on the same days. I've noticed one who is attractive and our eyes have met a few times over the weeks, I check her out not quite a bit and sometimes catch her looking at me but looks away as soon ...
A. 30 July 2009: Maybe or you just could be eye candy for her....talk to her then your find out!... (read in full...)
I look like a circus tent compared to other women! Any weight loss advice?
Q. i am 30 yaer old and i am size 16 and 14 stone. i find it hard to lose weight since i got older, to make things worse where i live there is no gyms,no swimming pool ,no sport shops,i can,t effort personal trainer.i can,t run i have asthmas,i am ...
A. 30 July 2009: Eat less...exercise more...walk EVERYWHERE!!!
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Ladies: Could she possibly want more?
Q. I got some great answers from some guys on this but was hoping for a female point of view :) Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked th...
A. 30 July 2009: Thats what you have to do is show your not like her ex!! Lucky for you your spending alot of time with her so you can do this....if she likes you sooner or later she will give in to you.....just give it time!... (read in full...)
Does Plan B work?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and having sex for 2. He sometimes asks me if he can just pull out but I've always been too afraid to risk it (because I'm not on any other type of birth control) so we always used a condom. ...
A. 30 July 2009: Easy mistake...but yes you could still get pregnant....so your just have to get checked...also have you had him tested??? how many partners has he had etc?? you shouldnt let someone pump there juices into you unless you know there safe! Becoz if ... (read in full...)
My husband has been browsing on a cheater's website, what do I do now?
Q. This is tough so forgive how long it is. I don't see how I could be wrong though. Someone kept clearing the history in our internet browser. At first I was worried my 9 year old son had started looking at pornography and trying to cover his tra...
A. 24 July 2009: You need to show him this.....ask him why he went on it!
Talk it through with him!
It may have been a mistake....curiousity maybe got the better of him!... (read in full...)
Would getting away from everything be a good move?
Q. I was with someone for over 5 yrs. Almost 2 weeks ago we split as per usual. Think our record has been 2 weeks without breaking up. Always the same thing cropping up again and again. Lets just say some would call it cheating. Last week i realised i ...
A. 21 July 2009: Go....you only live life once and life is short...so if this will make you happy then why not? Maybe this will help clear your head and find you some happiness! ... (read in full...)
I'm no longer interested in sex and I'm scared it will ruin our relationship.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and we've been living together for almost 2 months. I love him very much, and we get along great. I really believe that he might even be the one I spend the rest of my life with... except for one ...
A. 21 July 2009: Are you on any new medication? the pill? sometimes these things can affect your sex drive! Maybe your stressed about something in life. Talk to him let him know how you are feeling and that you want to get back to how you was before.....it co... (read in full...)
I like another man, but I feel I should be working on what's missing in my relationship. I don't know what to do!
Q. I have been with my partner for 11 years. I always thought that we were happy until 3 years ago when I met a man who made my stomach flip and made me realise that things were missing in our relationship. We were just friends but I looked forward to ...
A. 20 July 2009: Have you ever thought that maybe your marriage is over? It sounds you're trying so hard to make it work and your husband is not having none of it....so of course another man comes along pays you attention it will excite you and confuse you....b... (read in full...)
Online relationship for 14 months, what am I going to do?
Q. I've basically met my online boyfriend 14 months ago, and we know everything about each other. I live in California, and him in Florida; being across the country from each other, and both of us going to school, we did not have a chance to meet, and ...
A. 20 July 2009: If its ment to be it will....doesnt matter when you meet him....its fate hun, if you meet him when you move then that might have to be the only option! Just carry on talking like you have...cant you plan to take a weekend trip somewhere?
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How can I get my online GF to lose weight?
Q. I'm 13, I have a 12 year old girlfriend. She's wonderful. I love her very very much. The strange thing is she's a bit (not a lot), a bit overweight. I'm not a shallow boy that'll dump her because of this, but is there any way I could get her to lose ...
A. 20 July 2009: Dont be so shallow....she hasnt asked you to change so you dont have the right to ask her to!... (read in full...)
Is it possible to feel such a strong connection with someone you don't know in real life? Or is it just an illusion?
Q. I've met a guy on the internet. We have been talking for a year and half now. We've been always honest to each other, we spent hours of talking, watching each other on cam... I think of him more and more and obviously he feels the same. I feel that ...
A. 20 July 2009: You can have a strong connection with someone over the internet....but doesnt mean when you meet face to face it will be the same strong connection....if your lucky to meet and still feel this strongly then thats great........ (read in full...)
Online relationship-sometimes I feel pressured into talking to him and I don't need to talk every day
Q. Dear Cupid, for the past few months I've been talking to a guy online. It's gotten pretty serious and we've entered into a long-distance relationship. He's coming to visit in a few months and he says he loves me. I think I love him too but I can't ...
A. 20 July 2009: You don't love this man if you have never met him.....you need to meet first before you decide if its love or not....you might not even get on when face to face...so before you start thinking so serious....meet him!!... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he became distant and changed
Q. I met this guy and I liked him from the moment I saw him. He was a friend of my best friend's boyfriend, and her close friend too. When I told her I liked him, she was glad and she started telling me about him, about how nice he is and that he is ...
A. 20 July 2009: Why dont you ask your mates to do some fishing for ya...get one of them to maybe ask him casually so whats going on with you etc??? if your all friends im sure someone knows how he feels about you....... (read in full...)
Help! I'm in love with a guy 7 years older than me!
Q. it all started when he became a youth leader for my youth club we chatted and stuff and it was fun. then i started going to the church their with my friend who also feels she is in love with him. he helped me convert my life to become a christian ...
A. 20 July 2009: Maybe best to just talk to him bit more...get to know him better...you might just have a crush on him....and he might just like the attention the younger girls give him. If he is 21 he prob wouldnt get involved with someone who is 14. ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to see sense, I have seen her boyfriend cheating on her!
Q. Hi... My bestfriend is being cheated on.Shes going out with a guy whos 19 shes 16. When he goes out to clubs she doesnt go with him because she wont get into them. Anyway after a night out people constantly come back to her and me and tell us he w...
A. 20 July 2009: Only she can say enough is enough....it seems she is blinded by love and is not willing to see the truth as if she does she will have to lose him.....take a step back and just be there for her when she does wake up and see he is no good for ... (read in full...)
My parents want to meet my boyfriend but I'm scared they will judge him!
Q. my parents really want to meet my bf but im really scared and nervous that they will judge him straight away i dont think its fair at all. my last bf they met when we went up to my room my mum would make my brother chek on us like 24-7 it was so a...
A. 20 July 2009: Thats parents for you...your there little girl and you always will be....my mum does the same...they only want the best for you.....if he is a good guy then they will see that....maybe just explain to them how your feeling...and to have more ... (read in full...)
I have a gut instinct that my husband is cheating on me!
Q. hi cupids i am in a dilemma i think my husband cheating just a gut instinct so far an there a few signs he mite be like diet an exercise when i ask he says doing 4 my health he works a lot also i dont no any of is work mates he aint based anywhere ...
A. 20 July 2009: Normally the 'gut feeling' is the right feeling....so time to do abit of sniffing around.....check his phone if there are numbers which could be womens then write them down and call them to check.....the whole getting fit...that could mean a lady ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has lost all interest in me after only 5 months!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months. He used to act like he just could not get enough of me. He text messaged me all day long, always told me sweet things, and was very sexually interested in me as well. Things were going ...
A. 17 July 2009: Well you need to explain exactly how he has changed...its weird how he was all romantic then just stopped that normally doesnt happen for no reason.....talk to him...if he carrys on saying nothings wrong then you prob need to except it or break up ... (read in full...)
Is it a compliment to be told I remind him of his mother or was it a sign he isnt really into me?
Q. I met a man online and we hit it off wonderfully in person. We have a lot in common, are both freedom loving and yet value the friendship and human touch. But, he made a comment and I'm not sure how to take it. He kept staring at me over dinner and ...
A. 17 July 2009: Its better then saying you remind him of an ex!!!
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How can I avoid being lonely?
Q. I am wanting to find a women to have a relationship with after being divorced 5 years ago. I have been alone since then and don't even know where to start. I am in my fourties and have only dated one women my ex-wife ever in my entire life. I am ...
A. 15 July 2009: A great place to meet people if your shy is online.....join a few respected dating sites and your be sure to get talking to some great women.....and you never know something could come of them!... (read in full...)
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