When I leave the house my parents want it to be when I get married!
Q. I am 29 years old, single and I am going out with a seperated girl. She is 33 years old and has a kid but it doesen't live with her. I love her with all my heart and I want to go and live with her but my parents want me to go out from the house by ...
A. 21 November 2008: Sweetie, at the age of 29 you should not be living at home and certainly not be following what your parents tell you. Take the plunge and move out! Life is very short and if you have to do what everyone tells you you will land up old and alone!! ... (read in full...)
Every time I try to leave him he always makes me feel sorry for him.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we broke up about 4 times and it's always the same reason because he drinks too much, I have lost a lot of feelings for him, I really can't stand him any more!!!! Every time I leave him he comes crying b...
A. 21 November 2008: Sweetie, this guy needs to understand that you are moving on with your life and his sobbing will not make any difference. Cut all contact with him, if he sms's you, ignore the sms. If he calls you make an excuse not to be able to talk to him or ... (read in full...)
Could he have moved on that fast?
Q. Me and my boyfriend just broke up and yeah he was my first everything basically, but I found out he cheated on me... again. Yeah he cheated on my before but I believe in second chances so yeah but like he says he still loves me and if I ever need ...
A. 21 November 2008: Sweetie, this guy just wants his bread buttered on both sides... hes got you and hes got the other girl. So if things go bad with the other girl he will turn to you and vice versa. Move on, this guy will only cause you heartache! And, yes, he ... (read in full...)
I feel so unwanted by him...
Q. So I've been seeing this guy for almost a year we broke it off like once or twice. He told me he loves me and cares about me and the way he's been acting lately doesn't seem like he wants me to be around at all. It seems like he doesn't want this to ...
A. 21 November 2008: Sweetie, this man has a problem! What he has said to you is nasty and I think that he is happy with the situation, you are there for the sex, you are there looking after his kid, and you are there whenever he feels like being with you. His friends ... (read in full...)
His mom is so strict about us when I'm at his house.
Q. My boyfriend (who is 18) and I (turning 19 in a just a couple months) have been together for two years and lately, things have sort of... slowed down for us, sex-wise. It also kind of has to do with his mom wanting to interrupt us all the damn time ...
A. 21 November 2008: Sweetie, having been treated in almost exactly the same way when I was dating my then boyfriend [now husband], and I have been married 26 years. Nothing changes!! I have subsequently found out from the parents of my daughters friends, that they ... (read in full...)
Can I ask my boyfriend to marry me while he's getting divorced?
Q. Can I get engaged while going through divorce?...
A. 20 November 2008: Think that perhaps it will be better to wait until the divorce is final, otherwise it might look like you are the cause of the divorce even it you are not. You might find that once the divorce is final, he might have second thoughts about getting ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep getting these urges to worry about what other people are thinking!
Q. I just recently starting dating this girl, she's so sweet and I actually like her for more than her looks, she's really just an amazing person but she does have a kid and only 17, I'm one of those people who usually doesn't care what people think ...
A. 20 November 2008: Most of the time, people are not even thinking about you, they are thinking about themselves and worrying who is watching them. Be pround of who you are and who your girlfriend is, and if you are happy that is all that counts!... (read in full...)
He's telling me I'm hopeless in the bedroom!!!!
Q. My boyfriend has a very high sex drive, and is now saying I have to improve our sex life or he will end the relationship. (basically he told me he doesn't enjoy having sex with me.. I need to get into it more and seem like I'm enjoying it) I would ...
A. 19 November 2008: Mmmmm...... what has your boyfriend done to make sex more interesting? From what you have said it sounds like he is selfish and only really interested in his own pleasures. You dont say how long you have been with your boyfriend or how long you ... (read in full...)
Her text said I love you then she turns up with 2 guys and has me thrown out??? What gives?
Q. I was seeing a girl for 7 months, she moved away to work 70 hours a week, so I went there with the intention to live and work with her, to save our relationship. We ended up arguing about the job which after looking on the net about, found out it ...
A. 14 November 2008: Mmmm... Sweetie... forget this girl and move on with your life. Think about it... if she really felt something for you she would not have had you thrown out! Honeygirl... (read in full...)
I had sex with her, she is due to give birth soon, don't know if it is my child, what to do?
Q. o, i slept with my brothers girlfriends sister and she is due to have her baby next month, however has not mentioned it could be mine as she now has a boyfriend who has admitted he doesnt think it is his? Do I approach her? What do i say?...
A. 12 November 2008: DNA test! ... (read in full...)
Do you know anybody who quit drug addiction?
Q. Do you know anybody who quit drug addiction? Do you know what made them quit? Do you know how did they got into it? Do you think drug addiction a disease or a choice? My child is very sick, but I can't do anything, all attempt failed. D...
A. 12 November 2008: I would recommend reading a book called "I want my life back" by Steve Hamilton. It is about drug and alcohol addiction. Before I read this book I was of the belief that people could 'just give it up' something like quitting smoking. This book ... (read in full...)
My husband forgets things that I have just told him!
Q. I am worried about my 58 year old husband. I may tell him something and then he asks me questions a short time later about the same subject. Example: Last night watching Private Practice he went downstairs to turn off lights in the middle of the ...
A. 6 November 2008: Sweetie, we all become forgetful as we get older, although I would suggest if you are really worried about his memory to make an appointment with your doctor to have him checked out. Also, try not pick fights over silly things like what you wrote ... (read in full...)
How normal is this?
Q. hi I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now and we're very happy together. We often spend hours just led together in bed (we haven't slept together yet) and we normally end up making out with one of us on top of the other (fully dre...
A. 6 November 2008: Sweetie, it sounds like you are both into some heavy petting. Quite normal for teenagers since hormones are at their peak. I am sure that he wouldnt be with you if he didnt find you attractive. I dont know if lying still is the answer, as you must ... (read in full...)
Trying to love the alpha male...
Q. I have been involved with a successful and driven alpha male for about six months. I am crazy about him but there is something lacking. Being that he is a workaholic, our time together is limited to one lunch during the week and then Saturday ...
A. 6 November 2008: Sweetie, dont pressurise him to 'open up' to you all the time, rather tell him you love spending time with him when he is not busy and you love talking to him.... give him a bit of time. If he has other attributes that are better than any other men ... (read in full...)
Does it get less painful for girls to have sex with a big man over time?
Q. Does it get less painful for girls to have sex with a big man over time? My girlfriend and i decided to have sex last night and she is very small (5ft, 95pounds) and im quite big (6'1 230) and roughly 7inches big, and she has only been with 1 othe...
A. 6 November 2008: The vagina is designed to accommodate a baby being born, so yes it does stretch! However as you are both still new at having sex, suggest lots of foreplay and lots of lube.. oh...and lots of practice! smile!!... (read in full...)
Why has he put me permanently offline on his chat ?
Q. My boyfriend and I haven't chatted in years and we didn't have chat installed. He recently installed his chat and I did too. The thing is I was looking at my profile from his machine as he was logged into chat and then I right clicked on my na...
A. 6 November 2008: Sweetie, sounds like he didnt want to be interrupted by you whilst he was chatting to someone else. You need to speak to him and find out why he has put you as 'offline'. Alternatively, if you are able to get onto his profile have a look to see ... (read in full...)
What does my ex want from me?
Q. My ex and i have been split for over 4 weeks now,he left me for someone else, she has since started going bk with one of her exs but has told my ex that its him she wants, anyway since we split we have always keept in contact over the phone, but now ...
A. 6 November 2008: Sweetie, he left you for someone else and this woman is now messing him around... so he's kind of caught in the middle that is why he wants to keep contact with you.... somebody he can go back to when he gets offically dumped! It is time for you to ... (read in full...)
What could this mean? He misses me? Thinks about me?
Q. met this guy through work. we hit it off, in fact us being together getting along so well, with attraction he told me was one of the best two days he had in a long time and yes i could concur! well, through our time together we liked each other...
A. 5 November 2008: This man sounds like an immature jerk and a control freak!!! Listen to Agony Aunt Pepper27 - she is giving excellent advice.
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He said 'it's not his fault' that I'm pregnant!
Q. please can someone help me because i really dont know what to do! my boyfriend and i had been together for just four months and he knew i was no where near ready for sex, even though im 16 and legal n all that i didnt feel physically ready for it! ...
A. 3 November 2008: Sweetie, this guy raped you and hit you! You need to tell your mom what happened. This not your fault! But by talking to him and 'sorting things out' it has reinforced in his mind that what he did was okay, he might try it with you again [if he ... (read in full...)
My bf went back to his ex wife without saying a word to me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months, has in the last month has gone back to his ex wife without even telling me,i dont know what to do or think, we did not live together but i thought that he could have wrote a letter or something to tell me but i have not ...
A. 3 November 2008: What a jerk!!! He didnt even have the courage to tell you what he was going to do!! Move on and forget him... Oh and if he comes begging for you to reconsider, its only cos his ex has dumped him again.
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My bf kissed my sister, I ended it, and now my sister keeps trying to talk to me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend (im 17 and he's 18) came over to my place to watch a movie with me. My sis (she's 15) was watching it with him well I was in the bathroom. Than I came back and I saw them kissing but I could my sis was push off. I yelled at them then ...
A. 27 October 2008: You need to talk to your sister about what happened, she obviously is trying to fix things between you. Give her a chance to make amends.
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Why am I the secret girlfriend??
Q. I'm in my early 20s and dating a guy in his late 40s for about 3 months. We're both successful and have a great time together. There's one problem though, he tries to hide me from everyone in his life. There are very few mutual friends that know ...
A. 27 October 2008: Tell this man that you are tired of being his 'secret' and that you want to go out like a regular couple. Its possible that some people will pass comments about the age gap, but it really has nothing to do with them - its your relationship!
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Should I believe him??
Q. I am in love with a man who is currently living with the mother of his child. She doesn't know about us but he says that he will tell her once they sell their house which is on the market right now. He says that he has never loved anyone the way he ...
A. 27 October 2008: Mmmmm.... this man sounds like he lying to you and is cheating on the woman he is living with. I suggest that you tell him that you wont have anything to do with him until the house is sold and he has told the mother of his child... Then listen to ... (read in full...)
He is so controlling, how do I get out of this situation?
Q. Hi everybody well I have a problem and hope that any one can give me some advice. Well I was engaged with this man for 16 years and he never asked me to marry me, I have a 4 year old son with him and 2 teenage daughters from previous marrage. My ...
A. 15 October 2008: Sweetie, he needs to understand it is over! Dont go over to his house to visit, he is now your ex and keep it that way.. he sounds like he is manipulative and weak and while you were all living together he had everything he needed! Break all ... (read in full...)
We split up 5 months ago but he won't move out!!!!
Q. I split with my boyfriend (and father of my 3 year old twins) 5 months ago after years of him lying and stealing from me but he still won't move out. Nothing has changed, I still do all the cooking and cleaning and look after the twins by myself, ...
A. 15 October 2008: Sweetie, you are going to have to be the 'bad guy'... and tell him to move out!! He is very comfortable there, you are there to cook, clean and look after his kids, he has a bed and a roof over his head... why move when he would then have to look ... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend be bisexual?
Q. Could my boyfriend be bisexual? I have this weird feeling inside that something is not right in the relationship. My boyfriend would be happy only having sex every other week. He never gives me oral sex unless I ask for it. He acts like he is ...
A. 15 October 2008: Sweetie, perhaps your boyfriend has a very low sex drive so is happy with sex only every other week.... never giving oral sex... well this could be that maybe he doesnt enjoy giving it, maybe brought up to think that a woman's genitals are ... (read in full...)
My ex is telling everyone about our sex life and it's making me feel cheap.
Q. Hi I'm 15 and my ex boyfriend has started telling people about our sex life. He is also 2 years older than me and told people in my school. It's making me feel cheap and disgusting and I don't know what to do :( ...
A. 15 October 2008: He is an immature jerk!!! He obviously enjoys the attention he gets from telling everyone, makes him look like 'the man'.... We all react differently, but I would laugh about it then say... 'well I suppose he needs to boost his ego, cos his penis ... (read in full...)
How do I make her have sex with me again?
Q. I am a 19 year old man and have been dating an 18 years woman since April 2007. We had sex once in November 2007 and now that we are in a long distance relationship I called her yersterday and she told me that she is not prepared to have sex with ...
A. 15 October 2008: She must have a reason why she doesnt want to have sex with you... perhaps she is afraid of falling pregnant or contracting HIV or STD's.... maybe because she is a Christian she is going to save herself for marriage... You need to ask her for her ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she loves me but I know of 5 other guys who really like her... should I be worried?
Q. Well my girlfriend says she really loves me but there are at least 5 guys that I can think of off the top of my head that like her so should I be worried that she'll cheat at all??...
A. 15 October 2008: Mmmm.... Has she given you any reason to think that she might cheat on you? If not, then dont let it worry you. If you had to find out there were at least 5 girls that thought you were sexy, would you cheat on her?? If she really loves you, you ... (read in full...)
Should I give him another chance? I found texts to his ex begging her to come back!
Q. Hello everyone, I have been dating a man that when we first started dating still had feelings for his ex of 5 years, they have 2 young children together and have been broken up for 2 years He at the time said he did want to get back with her and is ...
A. 15 October 2008: This guy is still in love with his ex, and sorry to say, but you will always be 2nd! You deserve better so give him his marching orders!
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He's 18. I'm 15. Does anyone think this is bad?
Q. Hi I really like this guy but he's 18 and I am only 15. He is 19 in December, which makes it worse, but he doesn't want anything to happen until I'm 16, but I am not going to be16 until April. Does anyone think this bad ?...
A. 14 October 2008: Sweetie, a 3 year age gap is fine, and you both sound like you know what you want, so enjoy each other! But please remember, if you are going to 'go all the way' use protection!! Honeygirl... (read in full...)
It's been over 2 months and I'm yet to hear from him. Why?
Q. hi..i've recently had a sort of breakup...this guy whom i know since over a year and a half...whom i die for...has removed me frm everything...we've had up's and downs.. and we've had some real good time too. he was sure he liked me well, but ...
A. 14 October 2008: Sweetie, it sounds like he has other plans for his life and they dont include you. Perhaps he felt that things were moving too quickly for him as he is busy with his career.... Anyways, since it has been 2 months since you wrote your apology email ... (read in full...)
She only ever gives me oral, and has stopped penetrative sex...
Q. Hi, I have an issue with my girl, as the title says she will give me oral all the time but we will not have sex. She will let me give her oral as well but nothing else. She just says she is not in the mood, and has been like this for over 8 month...
A. 14 October 2008: I dont understand why she would give you oral but say that she is not in the mood for penetrative sex.... Is she perhaps afraid of falling pregnant? You need to sit down with her and discuss your concerns, but you must tell her how much you love ... (read in full...)
I wish he wasn't her ex husband!
Q. Dear Cupid, Please help me! I met such a wonderful guy and the problem is come to find out he is the ex husband of a former co-worker that i had from 14 years ago, I had"nt seen the co worker in years because i moved out of our small town for seven ...
A. 10 October 2008: Sweetie, you like him.. he likes you.... date him! Dont worry about the ex... she is the ex for a reason!
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I don't know what to think about these suspicious emails...
Q. I have a problem and would like other peoples views, A bit of background, we went to my wifes sisters 18th birthday party, at around 11.30 on saturday night the party finished, I said to my wife I wasn’t going into town and for her to go and enjoy ...
A. 3 October 2008: Sweetie, sounds like your wife is up to no good! Suggest that you talk to her regarding her relationship with this guy before things get out of hand... perhaps she is feeling lonely with you going off to work for 2 weeks at a time?? Honeygirl... (read in full...)
Do some women prefer to deal with men at arms length?
Q. Good morning. I appreciate that all men are different and that all women are different. Could someone explain to me (in a work related context) why a woman would turn down one guy's approach face-to-face by saying 'let's just be friends' whereas she ...
A. 3 October 2008: I would guess that the one guy she felt she could turn down with out any repercussions... the other guy perhaps he intimidated her that is why she asked for help to turn him down? ... (read in full...)
How do I get over him? I was his mistress.
Q. I was wondering how to get over a guy that i was his mistress. Everything was going great, then something unexpected happens that we break it off, but now we're left with the questions and the feelings....... So what do i do?????...
A. 3 October 2008: If you were his mistress, then I am guessing he is a married man..... sorry sweetie... no sympathy here! Suggest that you find a new outlet for your energy that does not have anything to do with married men! Honeygirl... (read in full...)
Do I hang in there, or leave him until the divorce is finalized?
Q. I am 27 years old and dating a 30 year old man for 4 months now. He is legally separated from his wife and they are currently going through a divorce. They have been separated for 4 years. He has asked me on several occasions to be patient with ...
A. 1 October 2008: If you are sure he is in the process of a divorce and his mother accepts you and you love him... well I would say hang in there..... Obviously there are issues between him and his soon-to-be-ex and you dont want to exacerbate the situation.... ... (read in full...)
We've been married four years and I still haven't met his family - should I be worried by this?
Q. Me and my husband are in our fourth year of marriage , blessed with two beautiful girls, but the problem is, up to now i haven't meet any of his family knowing that they are just a minute away...sometimes i kept asking him "why?" but i cant get ...
A. 1 October 2008: It is a cause for concern that you have been together for 4 years and you have yet to meet his family... does this include his parents??? Since you cannot get a straight answer out of him, and you know they live a short while away from you.. why ... (read in full...)
I am beginning to feel like we are more friends with benifits than lovers. I am feeling more and more unloved. Are we over?
Q. Hi, does anyone know the signs of a relationship on its way out please? Its just i am feeling more and more unloved as the weeks go by. For example my boyfriend and i have moved in together, thinking i would get to see more of him, however i am fin...
A. 26 September 2008: Sweetie, this guy is a waste of time... he is using your feeling for him to get what he wants... Sex!! Sounds like he is happy with the situation and I am sure he will never fall in love with you. It sounds like you are a friend with benefits.... ... (read in full...)
When I ask about a baby she says she wants to get married first...
Q. me and my girlfriend are to gether for 6 years i want baby from my girlfriend, my girlfriend told me she wants to have some fun first,in august of 2008 my girlfriend sent her son to ny with his aunt, and her daughter is with aunt,when i ask about ...
A. 26 August 2008: Well Sweetie, the answer is right there.... MARRY HER!
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