I can't control my emotions and I'm going to lose my boyfriend because of it!
Q. I love my boyfriend so much but I can't control my emotions. One minute iam happy with him and the next I just want him to leave. He doesn't do anything the majority of the time to make me angry. He tries to make it work, I feel like iam pushing him ...
A. 1 July 2010: I know exactly how you feel,Even though i know that the crap we fight about occasionlly isnt actually worth breaking up over,i always seem to want to leave or breakup. I think its cause i have never had an example in my life that shows how to make a ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my V-card to my cousin?
Q. the thing is is that i want to have sex ( lose my viginity to ) with my older cousin. he is only older than me by 2 years and we are very close. he shows me love and we kiss and he fingers me and once got close to having sex. i love my cousin ...
A. 21 December 2009: ileagal or not thats gross!!! you are family!... (read in full...)
Will I get him back?
Q. Ok,(I gotta give some background here) so I was with this guy, lets call him Bob for this, for 8 months. It was absolutely amazing. He changed my life. Literally. He loved me, I loved and still love him. It was a great relationship. We never really ...
A. 18 December 2009: ok how old are you and how old is he?
thats my first question.If you guys were so good together why did he feel that you were imature for him, i think thats quite insulting.the number one clue here is....that he said he wont take you back even if y... (read in full...)
I can't help but feel like he is lying to me...
Q. Hi, about a month ago I accidently came across some opened e-mails from dating sites in my boyfriends e-mail account (he always forgets to signout so hotmail opened up to his, and I didn't realize it was his right away). Anyways, he denied opening ...
A. 17 December 2009: you will need to move out my dear ... (read in full...)
She has been swapping nude pics with her ex, should I forgive or move on?
Q. I've been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over six months. She is my age and has a son that is almost two. I knew she had a son and there for would be around her ex more then any of my other girlfriends but, was willing to try and ...
A. 17 December 2009: move on she is cheating on you!... (read in full...)
I need to talk to my Mother
Q. ok i have a question so i had had my period fot 2 yearsz now i am 15 years old and i get frustruated with using pads so i have been thinking about using tampons. my question is how can i get my mom to approve or buy me some?...
A. 17 December 2009: use the swimming excuse, i said that i also want to swim during my period with my friends so i think i should start using tampons mom, its perfectly safe and it doesnt mean you are not a virgin and im telling you tampons rock!!!! you feel so much ... (read in full...)
I need to be honest but I'm afraid of destroying our friendship...
Q. ok, here goes, brutal honesty even though I know you're all going to shoot me down! A few months ago I went on this thing called playstation home on my ps3. its like a socialising platform. you create your avatar (character) and you can chat to ...
A. 17 December 2009: i agree with the above message first tell her that you are a guy but leave out the love part it will freak her out even more.... (read in full...)
Guys is this sweet or weird?
Q. Guys is this sweet or weird? So I am a broke college student and I have no money to buy my boyfriend of almost two months a Christmas gift. (We were close friends two months prior) He insists on getting me something... but I keep telling him n...
A. 15 December 2009: cute....and if he doesnt like it he is a ungrateful ass... (read in full...)
Found messages on his phone am I being jealous?
Q. I've been together with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. When I knew him, he was somewhat of a player and just liking to get attention from the ladies and stuff like that. I didn't really think anything of it at that time because I didn't expect ...
A. 15 December 2009: i would be furious!!!! i dont feel a guy in a relationship should be texting other girls on that level, so its up to you what makes you happy and comfortable but if my man was doing that i would leave him.... (read in full...)
17 and a 40 year old having sex?
Q. Hello. I was just wondering if it's ok for a seventeen year old girl to have sex with a forty year old man? I've known him for a few months and we've been talking a lot. I really like him and want him. I know that it is a significant age difference, ...
A. 15 December 2009: its not really a usual thing that happens and society might not agree but if you are both single and nobody will get hurt it really is your choice. But i am going to warn you that your parents wont be too pleased as he could be your father.... (read in full...)
16 year old has diapers?
Q. I am a mom of 2 girls, 16 and 13. I was cleaning there rooms while they were at school and found a pack of open adult diapers in the 16 years olds room. I have no idea why they are in there and really am concerned about what to do. Should I talk to ...
A. 15 December 2009: maybe you should pull her aside privately and ask her why they were there maybe she has a bladder problem and is ashamed to tell anyone.... (read in full...)
I can't help but feel like he is lying to me...
Q. Hi, about a month ago I accidently came across some opened e-mails from dating sites in my boyfriends e-mail account (he always forgets to signout so hotmail opened up to his, and I didn't realize it was his right away). Anyways, he denied opening ...
A. 14 December 2009: i think he is lying, never smoke without fire.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is talking to his ex behind my back!
Q. Okay this girl messaged me on myspace saying she was a friend of my bf's ex. She was telling me how he was calling her and messaging her on myspace saying how he missed her but he wants to keep it from me till he is ready to tell me. I didn't want ...
A. 14 December 2009: if my boyfriend was doing that its as good as cheating to me, its not like they were messages of friendship, he is making you look like a fool and you should have more dignity than that, move on you deserve better.... (read in full...)
Help, I think I have a tampon lost inside me!
Q. Ok so like 3 days ago i was on the last day of my period and had in a light tampon, I got extremely drunk later on that night and had sex with my guy friend.. I don't remember if I took my tampon out or not, and my guy friend was just as drunk as me ...
A. 14 December 2009: ok first of all a tampon cant get lost it has nowhere to go but because it was one for a light flow it is quite small and if it was inside of you when he penatrated you he should have felt it but you say he was drunk, so he could have pushed it ... (read in full...)
My ex is threatening to rape me!
Q. help! im 16 and i jus broke up with my now ex bf who is 19 bc he kept pressuring me to have sex. now he wont leave me alone! he keeps txting me, threatening tht he is going to rape me! his texts say: "listen beautiful, u know u want me, and your gona...
A. 14 December 2009: what a creep!!!! tell your parents they will be proud that you stood your ground and said no to sex. but this could get serious you need people to know this is going on before its too late.... (read in full...)
My guy has never come straight out and said " I love You"
Q. SO my guy has never said these three words "I love you." right out like that...Instead he says things like "Love yah lots!" Or he will tell his friends he "love yah lots!" then turn to me and say "love yah lots...more." Or if I do something stupid h...
A. 14 December 2009: he loves you, he might just find it hard to be so serious. my guy has the same problem, its usually i love you too or if i ask why he doesnt say it then its usually but you know i love you. but if we fight then he usually grabs me and say i love you ... (read in full...)
Could our adolescent sex play have turned her into a lesbian?
Q. When I was younger, me and my cousin played doctor and it went a little too far (sex, anal sex and oral sex). I was 11 years old and she was 10 years old. She was the one that talk me into these acts but after the first few times, she did not have ...
A. 14 December 2009: you cant turn someone lesbian, they are born that way...well at least in my oppinion... (read in full...)
Help..how to seduce my cousin?
Q. Hey, So my cousin's really hot. He's 17 and I'm 14. We chat sometimes but we never flirt, and he has a girlfriend. But I really want to get him to notice me! How can I do so? Please don't say "you're too young" or "it's your COUSIN get real". F...
A. 14 December 2009: apart from it being really sick...i feel that its wrong of you to want to mess up a relationship becuse of your selfish wants. ho would you feel if you were dating someone and some girl seduced your man for her selfish desires. come girl dont be a ... (read in full...)
After 3 months, is it too late to call her?
Q. Just curious... is 2 1/2 - 3 months too long to call someone? I exchanged numbers with a girl after having a polite conversation with her. I told her in a text, after a couple were exchanged, that I would give her a call some time. Well, to ...
A. 10 December 2009: ok its not normally exceptable but i think that you should take a chance. My brother phoned a girl who he broke up with after like 3 years because he wanted to see how she was doing and now they are married.who would have thought...so i say take a ... (read in full...)
What are causing these pains in my back and my stomach?
Q. I am having really bad pains in my back and in my stomach it feels like I kinda have real bad gas in my back it even hurts when I breathe in too hard. Now I been having symphtoms of a bladder infection so I thought this was what I had. I have been ...
A. 10 December 2009: your bladder infection could have gone into your kidneys you should see a doctor.
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Are these symptons a sign of pregnancy?
Q. i'm 14 years old, and im stressing because i think i might be pregnant. recently i had sex with my boyfriend, but only twice before we dicided to stop becoz it didnt feel right. ive been having many pregnancy symptoms like missed period, i have h...
A. 10 December 2009: has it been more than 2 weeks? if it has maybe you are pregnant but you will only know once you take a test, get a home test and if its negative you will feel better but then it probably something else. take a test first.... (read in full...)
Nothing will make this guy stop!
Q. I have a problem this guy won't go away. What started out whatseemed like a crush has progressed to begging for one date. I have told him no I'm not interested . I'm in love with someone elae . I ignore his texts and phone calls I'm rude to him. But ...
A. 10 December 2009: change your number and if he tracks you down go to the cops as he could be a freak that will start stalking you as they like the challenge.... (read in full...)
He spends 2-3 night a week with his friends instead of me. Is that normal?
Q. Hi I have a question: is it normal for your guy to spend 2 or 3 times a week with his friends after work and not with you? My guy see's me 2 times a week on his days off and sometimes 3 times a week if he has time during a break at one of his jobs. ...
A. 4 December 2009: i agree with the first message, a guy that is into you cant wait to see you everyday, and if you are happy, cool, but if you arnt then you should think things through. you have every right to want to see him and dont let him make you feel clingy ... (read in full...)
Husband has a fetish with my soiled panties!
Q. We've been married 11 years, together 14 years. A few months ago, I discovered by accident that he's been stealing my soiled panties and keeping them in his home office. I just happened to go into his desk to look for the car keys to move one...
A. 3 December 2009: as weird as it may seem, i would actually be a bit flattered atleast its your panties and not someone elses. to me it shows he still has the hots for you and i know its kinda embarresing but i think the new sexy underwear idea is great...keep the ... (read in full...)
Should I go with my husband to view his dead friend?
Q. My hubby's friend died and his viewing is tonight. He hasn't asked me directly to go with him, but when I ask him if he wants me to go, he says "I dont care, you can go if you want. What should I do?...
A. 3 December 2009: he needs you...go with... (read in full...)
I have a very silly question .......
Q. This is probably a really silly question, but I guess if I'm going to ask anyone a stupid sex related question I would really rather ask the people on this site than anyone else! Guys, girls, how exactly can you tell if a girl is loose? It's not...
A. 3 December 2009: i agree with the above comment... (read in full...)
I really, really like her, but does she like me back?
Q. how do i know if she likes me? ok so i met this girl and now we are good friends but it seems like if she likes me i like her but i dont know if she likes me we flirt like everyday and she always gets close to me as if she wants me to hold her o...
A. 3 December 2009: sound to me like she likes you, girls love to flirt and love to know they are wanted so becareful.If you are good friends and you trust her and you know she wouldnt want to hurt you then she probably likes you too and could be waiting for you to ... (read in full...)
I was lost, then found on facebook, and now discarded!
Q. My ex boyfriend found me on facebook. He wanted to meet again after 9 years. I told him I was in town and he never responded. I responded today saying he got the messages but he said alot has been happening in my life right now. What does this mean?...
A. 3 December 2009: move on not worth the trouble... (read in full...)
Since being played I cannot trust
Q. im a 22 year old virgin.my whole school experience was pretty terrible for me i always felt insecure missplace and low because i was always being made fun of, plus my first relationship ever was a sad wreck i got played! as a result im unconfident ...
A. 3 December 2009: well the advice that i can give you is.... always look for personality in a girl, i know looks play a part but personality is what counts, in the end its the personality that will keep you happy and together. On the trust issue, it will take time to ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before we have sex?
Q. Hello, I am 18 years old and I am a virgin I have a boyfriend who is 24 years old and we have only been going out for a while I do want to end up having sex with him but I am kind of scared but also at the same time I don't know how long we...
A. 3 December 2009: To give that part of ones self to someone you have to fully trust that person, youneed to be sure that you love him and and he truely loves you. sex is so personal that if you do it just cause you can it wont be special your first time.what does he ... (read in full...)
I'm getting married and I'm very sad. Why am I feeling like this? Red flag???
Q. I'm getting married. But i'm very sad. I don't know why. I'm anxious and very scared about marrying this man. I love him, but i am scared that im making a mistake. I feel alone for some reason. We went to get our Marriage License the other day ...
A. 2 December 2009: i dont think marrying him under these circumstances is a good idea, i feel you should be completely content and feel safe about your marriage as it is for life, and maybe he is also scared as he has been married before. think long and hard.... (read in full...)
Why am I overreacting so much about all of this?
Q. okayyy, i've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we get on amazing but his ex issues seriously bother me. she tried breaking us up until she got a bf of her own a couple of months ago, but im still majorly iunsecure. Everything was great until i ...
A. 2 December 2009: hey there
guys are very careless with this kind of stuff, they really do forget about it and girls are way more sentimental. tell him how you feel. He will reasure you. If he hasnt got a problem getting rid of it it should be clear to you that he ... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my looks and can't stand to see sexy women on tv
Q. i am a 23 year old girl who is overweight but i take pride in how i present myself most days. i guess ill say i am attractive for my weight. i have this wonderful boyfriend whome i love very much. we have been dating for over a year and live tog...
A. 2 December 2009: thanks hun i know you are right... (read in full...)
Why am I so jealous and insecure?
Q. Why am i so jealous and insecure? Im 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. Hes a good man and will do anything for me and vice versa. Ive suffered from jealousy and insecurity now for many years, however i am bett...
A. 2 December 2009: i feel exactly the same, i sometimes think i am crazy.. i cant stand strippers and porn and even though my boyfriend does his best to respect that sometimes i overreact about a pic or something and automatically want to leave him its really sad. but ... (read in full...)
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