Is going on the pill at 16 normal?
Q. ive been married to my wife for over 20 yrs. She was engaged to a guy before she met me, she also went on the pill for him at the age of 16. This is crucifying me after all these yrs. Can someone help me? Is this a normal age to go on the pill? I ...
A. 7 March 2009: I started on the pill at 15. And most of my friends were on it by 16/17. It's just a precaution and some women take it to ease menstrual pains etc. So, it doesn't mean that she was having sex from that age, perhaps she just definitely didn'... (read in full...)
Blood after sex, can this sometimes happen? Should I go to the doctor?
Q. Hello again, just one more question! My boyfriend and I had been intimate and right after intercourse, he had blood on him. I'm not on my period I finnished a week ago. At the same time I feel no pain, but there is blood... can this sometimes ...
A. 17 November 2008: It's often a sign of chlamydia, simple test, and if you do have the STI then treatment is just antibiotics for you and your partner I believe. But see a doctor as soon as possible.... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him again or not? (very long)
Q. I'm only fifteen and about two years ago I had the biggest crush on this boy, we will call him Alex, but he did not like me back. I was sad for a really really long time and I just could not seem to get over him. I started to date ano...
A. 27 October 2008: Wow, I've been there and it's hard hun.
But the fact is, if you don't think you're suited for "Justin" then there's no point in stringing him along. You need to tell him that you've had feelings for someone else, and just sit him down and expl... (read in full...)
Should we have a threesome?
Q. my wife of 8 years is now fantasising about her having me and another man , when we have sex she gets really turned on talkin about taking 2 of us in both holes at once , the talk gets dirtier as we progress , should i give her ,her ultimate and ...
A. 27 October 2008: It's completely up to you. But if you need to ask this site - then I'd say no, you're not ready.
Fantasies are fun to have between yourselves and to keep privately... But involving another person can seriously affect your relationship toge... (read in full...)
My gf is the one for me but I kissed a girl in a club whilst I was drunk...
Q. Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We have been through everything together. She even stayed with me through depression. I vowed i would NEVER cheat on her because she IS the one. I love her so much. Last weekend i went out with s...
A. 27 October 2008: At least you've come clean, you realise you did wrong and hell, you didn't go any further than a kiss. She'll understand that, and respect that you were honest. But you'll have your work cut out getting her to trust you again. You need to sit and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to move in with me and so do I, but her mom doesn't approve. What shall I do to make this happen in the best way?
Q. Hi, I seriously need ur help and advice on my love life and will appreciate every bit of it. I am seriously in love with a girl of 17, just 17 and she is seriously in love wit me. She is ready to do anything to make me happy and im also ready to...
A. 27 October 2008: I'm pretty sure you can leave home at 16 if you chose to over here. But honestly, I'd be more concerned in getting along with her parents. Keep talking about it... By all means, and perhaps get the flat anyway, let her stop over on weekends... Talk ... (read in full...)
What do you make out of this, is it selfishness?
Q. My husband left the house 5 months ago, stating "you don't care about me and I don't care about you" you didn't make me feel loved too much has gone on in the past, and he feels can't get past that. During this time we have gotten to gather many ...
A. 27 October 2008: I'm only young...
But I'm going to say stop the random sex for a start. If he's coming round, it's not just to use you.
Talk about the problems there are at home and why he thinks florida would be more suitable. Would you be willing to move wit... (read in full...)
He wants me to ride him but I don't know how!
Q. Dear Cupid My boyfriend and i been having sex and he is complaining that we dont do a new position and that he wants me to ride him only one problem i dont know how to ride lol what should i do ???...
A. 27 October 2008: Well, not to be too graphic.
Grinding and circling your hips is most likely to feel the best for you, but guys tend to enjoy the "in-out" motion more, up and down seems to work the best. So get him to stimulate your clit with his hands while you'... (read in full...)
How do I get more comfortable with sex?
Q. I am in a new relationship...about 3 months old and my boyfriend is ready to have sex but im not sure that i am ready. I am a virgin...well he penetrated one time and there was some blood but he didnt penetrate again because I was nervous. I can ...
A. 27 October 2008: Well, I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. My first time barely hurt. And there was very little blood... Just focus on foreplay, the more excited you are, the more pleasurable and comfortable the experience. You produce natural lubricants when you're ... (read in full...)
I have little or no interest in things- is this temporary or will it persist?
Q. I have a psychotic mental disorder that had me very busy in delusional thinking until just recently when I finally found the right medication at age 30. My life isn't a disaster, but I managed to make mistakes and mess it up temporarily. I've...
A. 27 October 2008: Well, I may be perhaps a little young to answer this but I'll give it my best shot as no one else has tried yet.
I'm no psychologist, I only have an AS level from college, so I'm hardly qualified to talk about mental disorders.
Still. If... (read in full...)
Do girls like giving oral sex?
Q. Do girls actually enjoy giving oral sex? Or do they feel obligated to do it?...
A. 27 October 2008: No one should feel obligated to do anything when it comes to sex. Its a decision between two people and all other activities should be approached with the same respect and understanding. Personally I enjoy performing fellatio... Just keep yourself ... (read in full...)
Is he my bf or not?
Q. so i have known i meet his guy 8 weeks ago. i am 22 by the way and he is 32. well he is my friends neighbor but that was like the first time anything more than pleasantries was said. 5 weeks ago we made out, it was also the first time we had hung...
A. 27 October 2008: Boyfriend is simply a label to put on a relationship and it tends to make things a little more exclusive.
Seeing as neither of you are seeing anyone else and you appear to be meeting up regularly it would make sense to call him your boyfriend, but ... (read in full...)
How long should a male last in sex? Any tips on lasting longer?
Q. How long should a male last in sex? also what techniques could you apply to last longer...
A. 27 October 2008: It varies. And I wouldn't put it down to experience or age, everyone's different.
Although, the saying will always be - practice makes perfect. It's never plain and simple with a new partner. Learn what feels good, focus on them and it will stop... (read in full...)
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