When she is out of sight she is always on my mind
Q. Hi, I have a problem whenever I don't see my GF for a few days I get the feeling she is cheating. I have told her I don't trust her and she was very hurt by it (I said this in anger) but still I told her I will stay on my toes! she has assured me ...
A. 6 December 2009: Yep. DoubleM hit it right on the head. If she does cheat on you, it'll be because you're constantly accusing her of it not because she's not loyal. If her feelings are important to you, stop the accusations straightaway.... (read in full...)
I want to ask a co worker on a date, but have been told its a bad idea
Q. For the last 2 years I have had this crush on this girl from my job and she has had a crush on me as well. Recently she ended her relationship with her long time boyfriend due to some ongoing problems. I really want to date her but I am being told ...
A. 6 December 2009: Not at all. As long as you can keep your professional lives and personal lives separate, I don't believe there would be any problem whatsoever.... (read in full...)
He's gave me an STD and he's sleeping with a pregnant girl
Q. I'm 18 and i have recently been having sex with this guy who's 1 yr older than me and found out he gave me chlamydia when i confronted him about it he didn't really seem to be bothered (he knew he had it), worst thing is he was in a relationship ...
A. 5 December 2009: Well, if you must tell her via text message (which is understandable) then start off by introducing yourself. You say she's your sister's friend, so hopefully that will instill trust in her. Tell her that it's come to your attention that she's been ... (read in full...)
She mixes with celebrities but I am just a ordinary guy
Q. Greetings everyone. I'm here to ask a very strange sounding question; just make sure you read everything I have to say or it may seem a bit confusing. See, I've been seeing this girl long-distance for almost two years now. Where I live, I'm fairly...
A. 5 December 2009: Well in the end I really have no choice but to just trust her. Being a groupie is what she does, it's part of her. I expressed to her that her comments made me uncomfortable, and she agreed not to say such things again. Thanks to everyone for all of ... (read in full...)
Without her I feel alone. What can I do?
Q. I just broke up with my girlfriend of three years and now i fell all alone. I don't have that many friends except for her and a group of people that we used to hang out with together. She continues to hang out with that group but i feel awkward ...
A. 4 December 2009: Can you not stand one another's company whatsoever? If you have been hanging out with this group for three years then surely you must've formed a personal bond with some of them. If you guys could even stand being around each other as friends then I ... (read in full...)
He's gave me an STD and he's sleeping with a pregnant girl
Q. I'm 18 and i have recently been having sex with this guy who's 1 yr older than me and found out he gave me chlamydia when i confronted him about it he didn't really seem to be bothered (he knew he had it), worst thing is he was in a relationship ...
A. 4 December 2009: My personal opinion: absolutely you should tell her. He made it your business when he slept with both of you, without telling either of you about his disease. If she knows about it far enough before the birth of the child, doctors could prescribe, ... (read in full...)
Was he avoiding taking my number?
Q. Well, I'd liked this guy for quite some time, and he works at my favourite restaurant. We always talk and joke around when I go in. Tonight, I got my usual order, and (remembering the last time I was in) he gave me an extra pickle with my food. He ...
A. 4 December 2009: I work at a restaurant, and I've never heard of that policy but it certainly doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Either way, time will tell. You know he has your number now, so if he calls then obviously he doesn't mind having it. A lot of guys are ... (read in full...)
Do guys like girls with make-up, or without?
Q. Many girls wear a lot of make up and some do not wear any at all. I was just wondering if guys like it when girls wear make up or don't. ...
A. 4 December 2009: Honestly, it's all a matter of personal preference. I've met girls that look great with makeup and scary without it, I've met girls that look great without and scary with, and I've met girls who look great no matter what they wear on their face. It ... (read in full...)
Can I get her to change or opinion of me? I want more than friendship
Q. So I like this girl in my last period class. She's a country girl. But is completely down to earth. She shares my view of waiting til marriage for sex. She loves riding horses. We both have one. But from what I can tell, she thinks I'm kinda stupid. ...
A. 4 December 2009: So... Wait a minute, I'm confused. If she's helped you in past relationships, then she's your friend right? And teachers accuse you of flirting? So obviously she doesn't think you're stupid, what leads you to believe so? The building block of any ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he removed himself from the swinging websites he used to use?
Q. My boyfriend of 9 months used to go on swinging/sex/dating websites (the type where basically all's you want is sex) I found this out the other week when on his laptop (I wasn't snooping it just popped up) so what should I do? He joined up to them ...
A. 4 December 2009: rhythmandblues: that is exactly the kind of predetermined notion that I hate. You think everyone who uses personals websites are STD infested sex addicts? Forgive me if I fail to understand.
jadey: Whether the exception to the rule or not, EVE... (read in full...)
I felt guilty so I came on too strong. What can I do to fix it?
Q. i met a girl about 2 1/2 weeks ago, we got to hang out a couple of times and i even went to her house once. She seemed to like me since she was always constantly calling me to do things together from going to the movies to going to parties and ...
A. 4 December 2009: The cruel reality is, you may be able to do nothing at all to "fix" it. One thing you should not do is invade her personal space. Were I you, I would leave a voicemail or perhaps a text message explaining that it wasn't your intention to come on too ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he removed himself from the swinging websites he used to use?
Q. My boyfriend of 9 months used to go on swinging/sex/dating websites (the type where basically all's you want is sex) I found this out the other week when on his laptop (I wasn't snooping it just popped up) so what should I do? He joined up to them ...
A. 3 December 2009: All in all, what I'd say is be careful. It's so easy to jump to the wrong conclusion, and you could hurt him badly. My girlfriend and I have had a long distance (1300 miles) relationship for two years. Prior to our relationship, I had been a member ... (read in full...)
How do I emotionally detach myself from an unloving husband?
Q. How do i emotionally detach myself from an unloving husband? when i say unlove it means he is never mentally or emotionally attached to me... i have tried to please him in all way but he prefers to be left alone most of the times. the only way i r...
A. 3 December 2009: It's not going to be so easy to simply "detach" yourself from him. Fact of the matter is, maybe 16th century marriages could work the way you're describing, but this is the 21st century and we like to marry for love, not title. I would sit down and ... (read in full...)
She mixes with celebrities but I am just a ordinary guy
Q. Greetings everyone. I'm here to ask a very strange sounding question; just make sure you read everything I have to say or it may seem a bit confusing. See, I've been seeing this girl long-distance for almost two years now. Where I live, I'm fairly...
A. 3 December 2009: Yes, as I said, I never had a problem with it before. I didn't even mind when bands would hit on her because she never came out and made comments like the ones she's making now. Perhaps I should've been more specific, I'm not worried about random ... (read in full...)
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